Ok, I think this may have been brought up in previous threads, but it was so long ago I can't remember what the general consensus was.

A friend of mine is morbidly obese. I've known him for years and he's the coolest guy, but I can see the pain that being overweight gives him. He constantly breathes heavily, like he can't catch his breath; we went to a baseball game this weekend and he was so uncomfortable in the seat because he could barely fit in it. I'm not judging, because, hey, we've all been there. But here's my question: I think he could really benefit from LapBand surgery, but I don't know if 1)I should bring it up, or 2)there's any tactful way to do so.

He knows I have the band, and he knows that since my last fill I've finally been enjoying some weightloss. How does one broach that subject? Shit, I don't know his medical history, maybe there's some other explanation for his obesity besides overeating (but, going on my own personal experience, I'm guessing there's not). And obviously, he knows he's overweight. I mean, I would get FURIOUS at my mom when she'd gently try to broach the subject with me and start that, "why don't you try exercise or some different foods?" b.s.

I just hate to see him so unhappy and unhealthy. Any thoughts?

p.s. I finally put a photo of my on my avatar but b/c it's so small it makes one of my eyes look all wonky, lol

Pretty funny about taking that lady her clothes back! LOL...

My family and friends always thought I could lose weight on my own. I really tried and tried for years and would have small successes but I could never keep anything off for good. Since I was 16 I knew I needed HELP. Recall my story about having my teeth wired shut at 16. I would have done anything at any time to get wls done. I am so glad I learned about the band when I was researching wls. Best of luck with your friend. What kind of puppy? Teresa

He's a little cock-a-poo named Snickers. He's 5 1/2 months old and he's a hellion! I have bruises on my arms from his sharp little teeth, that monster! But I still love him to bits =)

Marie3181, we have a cocko-poo that is now 8 years old. Buddy is the best dog you could ever ask for. He's always even-tempered and loves everyone. He smiles all the time. You just can't stay feeling "down" when he's nearby.

When my kids were still in school, I spent many an all-nighter typing up numerous reports for them. For various reasons, I'd have to walk across the house to get something. No matter how late it was or how many trips I had to make, Buddy would get up and plod along behind me. I'd feel so guilty! But he'd never wait for me to come back. 8 years later, he still does the same thing. He follows me from room to room. The vet can't believe he's that old. He's snow white and loves to run and play. No agility problems yet.

You will just continue to love this little dog more and more as time goes on! He'll also love to go on walks w/you. The only problem I had, was that Buddy likes to "catscan" (constantly looking for a cat to chase). Right after surgery, I didn't feel like him suddenly lunging on the leash. Best of luck to you!