This isn't necessarily a sleever's issue of course, but this is my only online community where I can vent so, here goes ...

I am deployed, the male to female ratio is 10-1 and a lot of these guys are young and hard, if they aren't working they are working out. I watch them do pull ups in the weight hangar and my mouth waters. It has now been ... 5 week since I've had any intimacy and I really. really. REALLY. want. IT. They all stare at me, stare holes through me, undress me with their eyes - and take their time about it, but none of them approach me or take the initiative.

All those tanned muscles ... twitching biceps and corded forearms that could just lift me ... hmmmmm.

What stops you from showing that you might be intrested in a flirt?

As a female out here, one must tread very carefully, it takes next to nothing to start gossip around here. And I thought I had put out some subtle yet distinct signs of flirtation, it seems like they flirt right back when they do actually talk to me, but they never take the next step. The longer I am here without, the better looking they get, we call this "deployment goggles".

Hang in there girl! I can see how gossip could affect you in a negative way, but you will get your chance soon enough! Im sure the hotties are fantasizing about you too. Good luck!

Well they need to stop fantasizing and start making it a reality!!

I am with you Globe..I don't know about anyone else..but omg I have become a total horn dog since surgery. My boyfriend and I always had a very healthy sex life before but now I think I am totally out of control..not sure if it is the hormones or what!

I say you take the situation under control..find a hottie that will keep his mouth shut and um get down to some cardio

THE DRY SPELL IS OVER!!!! Found a hottie, another civilian like myself. Saw him, knew what I wanted, made it happen. Now the frustrating part, there's no place we can be alone together! We both share huts with a lot of other people and no men are allowed in the womens hut and vice versa. His is a little easier to handle because his room actually has walls that go up to the ceiling so if he sneeks me in, it's manageable. But I can't risk falling asleep because I can't risk doing the morning walk o' shame. But still, finally!!

I hope my libido wakes up soon. I think the fat is still smothering it. I want for my mouth to water.