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Breaking up with my boyfriend

fatrosie

By fatrosie, in The Gals' Room

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fatrosie    176

fatrosie
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It's just time. We've been dating almost six months and since I made the decision to have surgery I've been having trouble picturing any kind of future with him. I also realized I want to enjoy my new emerging body! When I get attention form other men I want to enjoy it!!! He's also been shunning my health conscious ways and I fear he could be my downfall when it comes to this surgery.... I'm 6 weeks out and doing great.

Did anybody else feel this way? He's a good guy, just not right for me. Or the new me at least.

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No game    14,437

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Your young Rosie! There is nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy your freedom. There will be plenty of time later for seriousness and long term relationships :)

Now go out to Waddell and get a cute wind surfer :o

Or one of those cute surfer boys at west cliff yummy

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Ms.AntiBand    2,984

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I agree. You're young and have plenty of time to settle down and get stuck..err I mean spend all your time with the same guy :D

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Museum-Mama    196

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One thing I learned the hard way is to trust your intuition. You know when something is not right for you, and you dont even have to rationalize it. Go! Be happy!

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NewAshes    232

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Yeah It's been a long time fear for me that if I lose weight I will change. I have been with my bf for 2 years but he is almost perfect for me and has the right amount of patients to put up with my mental disorders. I get attention already since I'm a girl gamer but its really going to test me when I get skinny. Anyways do what makes you happy!

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MrsG    329

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Go with your gut girl! If you feel he could be your downfall, leave! I agree in that you are young and have lots of time later for settling down. Do your thing, lose your weight and enjoy being who you are for a while! Your cute and look like fun and there are lots of guys out there to have fun with without being tied down! Good luck! ;)

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fatrosie    176

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Thank you for bring so supportive you guys! He's definitely not taking it well and it's good to be reminded here that I did the right thing. I forget how young I am sometimes and forget to enjoy it. You all rock and are a fantastic support system! Xoxo!

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