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My surgery is scheduled for this Wednesday the 9th! Up until today, I have been pretty calm. But now I'm suddenly terrified. So anxious about the pain, the nausea, possible complications, everything negative! Mostly I am only scared of the recovery. I feel like I can stick to the eating plan and do what I need to do to be successful....as long as I don't have complications and be in so much pain and nauseas. Any advice? :(:(

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ME TOO!!!! We are sleeve sisters!!!! Except im not scared! Bring it on is my motto! I'm ready! Good luck and i will be looking for your post!

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I'm sure that by this point you have researched everything and prepared yourself as much as possible. Think positive thoughts and everything will be fine.

My surgery was 1 month ago today and I have already lost 43 pounds. Keep thinking about that type of thing and lets get excited about this.

Let me know if I can help with anything,

Rick

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Wow.. Mine is the 8th. I am going through this emotional thing.. worried about my kids and how they will be. Wishing my husband would act more supportive. I just want it over with. I start thinking negative thoughts and all the good overcomes.. hurry up Jan. 8, 2012! Hey... I figure to have pain and possible nausea. There are medications for that!! Best of Luck to all of ya... and will report back soon :)

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My surgery is on the 11th of January... I too am anxious... but so ready to be on the losers bench. So many other people has had this operation and has had positve results we can too! One thing that keeps popping up in another forum is to get up and start walking as soon as you can after surgery. It is supposed to help in releasing the gas. And don't forget to get lots of Water in you. Good luck.. see ya on the other side.

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Im here with ya mine is the 7th so I be going under 1st im stoked not nervous a bit I probably will be monday as I drive there but im soooooo ready!!!! We can do this!!!!

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I just had mine on dec 18th...the first week you are sore but if you walk and stay mobile it's not that bad. ( be careful sneezing and coughing put a pillow on your belly it helps).I have had 3 c-sections so this was easy..The biggest thing is to stay hydrated.I haven't had any problems.I started on liquids after the hospital and a week later I was able to eat mashed veggies. I was also a nervous wreck watching YouTube videos and hearing everyone's story's. just remember everyone is diffrent and we all heal differently . Good luck to you all!!

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ME TOO!!!! We are sleeve sisters!!!! Except im not scared! Bring it on is my motto! I'm ready! Good luck and i will be looking for your post!

My surgery is on the 16th . I'm excited and excited cant wait.

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Wow.. Mine is the 8th. I am going through this emotional thing.. worried about my kids and how they will be. Wishing my husband would act more supportive. I just want it over with. I start thinking negative thoughts and all the good overcomes.. hurry up Jan. 8' date=' 2012! Hey... I figure to have pain and possible nausea. There are medications for that!! Best of Luck to all of ya... and will report back soon <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />[/quote']

Good luck. Think about your kids and stay positive .

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Hi there!

Good luck on your upcoming sleeve. I just had mine done in Dallas on 12/31/12. I had many of the same concerns, but just know you be okay.

I was able to get up and walk the halls with no problems at all - not too much pain. I threw up twice in the hospital but it was due to the pain meds they gave me - I had to take something different. I haven't thrown up since I've been home. Just be sure to get up and walk it off when you feel nausia and / or gas pains come on.

You will be told to sip sip sip the fluids and be like, well, hello, I can only take one sip and I'm done. That's normal. I am 6 days out from surgery and so much better already. I am drinking Protein shakes now and could have never imagined it in the beginning. chicken bouillon cubes are my favorite.

Anyway - just take it one day at a time and if things don't go exactly as you thought they would - it's okay. It's a temporary situation and it will get better.

Good luck.

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Thanks.. good to hear from you!! Hope keep getting better! I got 3 more wake ups... can not wait to get it done!! Will keep updating.... thx :)

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Wednesday is my dat too. Started the clear fluids today, and lost 10 lbs on the pre op. Nervous and excited at the same Tim.

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I get sleeved Thursday the 10th. It will be fine. I am nervous too, but remember you started this process for a very important reason. Remember that reason and stay strong! :) Good luck.

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I agree... keep you eye on why we are doing it and how much better our lives will be. Mrs Hall, thanks for the tip. I have gotten used to the shakes and fluids. I like the taste of the protine shakes.I have lost 10 lbs in 10 days on this liquid diet. 10 down 90 to go!!!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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