This is possibly a TMI post, just beware ;-)

[It's all new 453]

Sex after losing the excess weight is infinitely better, as far as I am concerned. Yes, I have loose skin. But as far as participating fully, that counts for a lot.

I see nothing wrong with waiting for marriage. I would imagine you have had conversations about his views on sexuality and feel you will be compatible. It wouldn't be for me - but it takes all kinds!

[Im done mooing. 17]

I am amused that this has gone from "Is sex different after the surgery" to "should you have sex before marriage".

[sars 7]

I say do it when you want to, heavy or not, if you love the person, it will most likely be "good".

You'll probably have more lingerie options when you are thinner, though.

[ashelaine 383]

I will say- sex before was great with my guy. Sex now- is mind blowing.. and this is only 35lbs gone. I am able to do a lot more and move a lot more and i enjoy it immensely

[mezanne1401 190]

I've list 51 pounds and sex went from blah to bravo!!!! My husband said it felt different. I could move/bend/twist much easier and had no hip or back pain.

[C_TimesThree 64]

I happen to love my fat sex, my husband claims he likes it better than sex he's had with any skinny girls (and its been A LOT), when I told him I had made te choice to sleeve his first reaction was "what if the sex isn't as good!" And he's not a chubby chaser or whatever other witty thing you call guys that are into fat chicks.

[C_TimesThree 64]

I guess I should add despite being a fatty I'm still super flexible and rather inhibited, I think the sex becomes "amazing" because your mind lets it, maybe not so much because the sex changed.

[Crystal Woods 193]

I have lost 108 pounds. I was flexible to some extent when I was overweight but now I am extremely bendy! Sex is much better. Yes I have some lose skin but its still way better than the weight. I have the confidence to have sex with the lights on. My man can hold me in the air while we have sex now. Our sex life is so much better.

[Lloydthumper 70]

I am amused that this has gone from "Is sex different after the surgery" to "should you have sex before marriage".

Sorry that is just a debate that has came up time and time again around me and It triggers a responce from me each time.

[C_TimesThree 64]

Flexible is good.

Mmhhhmmmm

[Lloydthumper 70]

I call bullshit on your bullshit. Stop making stories up.

Lol if I was going to make up a story it would have been better than that. For what reason would I need to make that up any way? Everyone has there on beliefs and views I was just giving an example that I know first hand about.

[lucky8mb1 167]

Studies show that people who wait until marriage to have sex actually have longer, happier marriages.

You can go ahead with your unsolicited nonsense now.

There are also studies that show the opposite. What's your point?

[fallingwhisper 187]

Fishy, I felt the need to say that you are RUDE. I've seen more than one post from you that was sarcastic/mean or rude. Unless you've live in everyone's house and lives, you have no idea if people are making up stories or not. People come to this place for support and advice, so unless you cut the negativity, you're going to end up being reported

[Banned member 320]

To me sex has been the same. It's always been great. My husband knows what gets me to the big O and I know what gets him there also. We've been married for 9 yrs

[NIKIMAC 19]

Sex for me was good when I was 300lbs and well as it is now at 178lbs. The only difference is the skin and now Im not so out of beath (sometimes). I have nothing against a person waiting for marriage, but I would hate to get married and the sex turns out to be bad. But I guess you can teach me what u like, when that time comes.