So im 1 week out from surgery and were at the mall taking my daughter to get santa pics as soon as we enter the mall my husband says hes starving, wtf!!! Why couldn't he have made something before we left, so now im sitting in the food court hating life watching everyone shove down delicious food I hate him right now

I guess the meanings of words like 'normal' and 'average' become blurred when we live in the western world where most people are overweight or obese.

It sounds like Catracks husband eats how people SHOULD eat. Weather it's common, average or normal for me is pretty irrelevant.

I'm more concerned about how I should eat, not how others are eating (including friends and family), not how the population eat (most of us are fat) and I certainly don't want to be average!

Personally, I think you should just divorce him... that low down ass

I get that you, like EVERYBODY Else on this forum has challenges with eating habits. And its nice to have a place with understanding people who do not judge you while you vent (even if you say things that you dont mean). Im sure that you love your husband and he didnt mean to rub it in.

Maybe next time for the sake of all the opinions on how you should feel you should just call him a "hole" lol.