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hello every one

im scheduald for sleeve on 3rd of january ...i really cant wait for this day to come..actually im depending on it!

im totally in pain from how i look ..scared to gain more as am under untidepressents so im eating more.. i lookes at my self today in the mirror seeing hw bad my body is and i cried so hard as i never experianced hw a grt body feels like ..i feel without this surgeru my lifw will be over as i cnt even walke for 5 mim whithout feelimg tiered

im 247 pounds (112 kg)

my question here

am i giving my self over hope?am i being extra positive about thw surgery ?

i cnt wait to have it as am sure that 3rd of jan is my last day as a fat girl ..and ill syart loosing starting that day

help me am scared and worried

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hello every one

im scheduald for sleeve on 3rd of january ...i really cant wait for this day to come..actually im depending on it!

im totally in pain from how i look ..scared to gain more as am under untidepressents so im eating more.. i lookes at my self today in the mirror seeing hw bad my body is and i cried so hard as i never experianced hw a grt body feels like ..i feel without this surgeru my lifw will be over as i cnt even walke for 5 mim whithout feelimg tiered

im 247 pounds (112 kg)

my question here

am i giving my self over hope?am i being extra positive about thw surgery ?

i cnt wait to have it as am sure that 3rd of jan is my last day as a fat girl ..and ill syart loosing starting that day

help me am scared and worried

Hello, I cry with you,I get pre-op on December 5,I know I need this surgery and I've went through a lot to get to this stage,but I am so dealing scared,but last night I was looking through my closet for some shoes I needed and was out of breath,that was motivation for me.We just have to keep the faith and know that there is a prize at the end of this rainbow.

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Hang in there i was sleeved Monday 11/26/12. and with the liquid preop diet and surgery combined i have lost 36lbs in the last 3 weeks. I,m not even a full week out and i already feel some better and it gets better everyday. I couldnt hardly stand long enough to shower before surgery.

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Don't wait for surgery to start weight loss. Do it now. You will feel better, your surgery will go easier and your recovery will go faster.

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We will get through this and we have a healthier and happier future to look forward to.

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hello every one

im scheduald for sleeve on 3rd of january ...i really cant wait for this day to come..actually im depending on it!

im totally in pain from how i look ..scared to gain more as am under untidepressents so im eating more.. i lookes at my self today in the mirror seeing hw bad my body is and i cried so hard as i never experianced hw a grt body feels like ..i feel without this surgeru my lifw will be over as i cnt even walke for 5 mim whithout feelimg tiered

im 247 pounds (112 kg)

my question here

am i giving my self over hope?am i being extra positive about thw surgery ?

i cnt wait to have it as am sure that 3rd of jan is my last day as a fat girl ..and ill syart loosing starting that day

help me am scared and worried

It is ok to be scared and worried. I had my sleeve in aug and I'm glad I did. Just remember this not a quick fix. There is still work to be done after the surgery. When you start noticing the weight coming off and other start noticing, it won't be so hard. I understand about looking at yourself. I did the same thing. I like what I see now!!! Good luck we are all with you.

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hello every one

im scheduald for sleeve on 3rd of january ...i really cant wait for this day to come..actually im depending on it!

im totally in pain from how i look ..scared to gain more as am under untidepressents so im eating more.. i lookes at my self today in the mirror seeing hw bad my body is and i cried so hard as i never experianced hw a grt body feels like ..i feel without this surgeru my lifw will be over as i cnt even walke for 5 mim whithout feelimg tiered

im 247 pounds (112 kg)

my question here

am i giving my self over hope?am i being extra positive about thw surgery ?

i cnt wait to have it as am sure that 3rd of jan is my last day as a fat girl ..and ill syart loosing starting that day

help me am scared and worried

Hi there

You are headed in the right direction.

I understand how you feel. I am 264lbs and get out of breath as well walking up the stairs in my house. My body well thank God for my hubby acceptance of it. It could be worse. I also was anxious in Last week as this whole process is new to me. So you are not alone.

I feel a ray of Sunshine coming my way and yours. Things will improve.

Congrats on your surgery date!

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Hello!! And welcome!! Pretty soon you'll be on a new journey to a much healthier life! And with that healthier life will come a different slimmer look!

As far as are you putting too much hope in the surgery that totally depends on you. Weight loss surgery is a tool. YOU still have to do your part to lose weight by watching what you eat, making the right choices, working out. It will work for you if you work too!

hello every one

im scheduald for sleeve on 3rd of january ...i really cant wait for this day to come..actually im depending on it!

im totally in pain from how i look ..scared to gain more as am under untidepressents so im eating more.. i lookes at my self today in the mirror seeing hw bad my body is and i cried so hard as i never experianced hw a grt body feels like ..i feel without this surgeru my lifw will be over as i cnt even walke for 5 mim whithout feelimg tiered

im 247 pounds (112 kg)

my question here

am i giving my self over hope?am i being extra positive about thw surgery ?

i cnt wait to have it as am sure that 3rd of jan is my last day as a fat girl ..and ill syart loosing starting that day

help me am scared and worried

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you have noooo idea alll of you how much ur replay made mr happppy

i really felt am not alone

i know the surgery is just one step toward a journey that needs our streangth

good luck for alll of us

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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