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The Nerve Of Her !

So I'm grocery shopping my friend and her aunt are in the store why does my friend comes and confront me in front of everyone talk about don't have this surgery ( she didn't kno the difference between what surgey I'm having ) don't you want to be around for your kids and u gone die blah blah not to mention my husband was w me and walked and I just got him comfortable w the idea then the big whammy I exercise w you if u want .. Did I go off yes I did this is my life I have live my own life and god got my back imm be just fine ..not to mention a white who's just standing be nosey come up to me and said you not even big enough get your butt out there a exercise what first off lady you do not kno me are my medical history your a stranger to me who look like you never has a weight problem .. It was crazy you guys but I'm so strong minded that I've done enough homework to be comfortable about my choice .. On another note they need to do there homework before approaching me have facts cus I got this

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Well I ment to say her aunt not my friend she put her aunt up to it after she already had spoken to me but they where together at the store

That's right, girl Keep your chin up and keep it moving. I truly believe when we receive backlash because of our choice to have the surgery, the other person feels threatened and jealous, don't know why because you are doing this for your health, God is a povider and protector, you'll be fine and healthy! :)

i know how you feel. i went through the same thing. and my biggest critic was my MOM who is a registered nurse. she would text me EVERYDAY with diet tips and give my phone number to herbalife people and they would call me stalking leaving voicemails about how the surgery is deadly bla bla bla. but guess who was there for me the entire time? my MOM! lol she had my daughter while i was in the hospital and she has turned around been my number 1 support system.

everything happens for a reason and we are all guided into this path on purpose :) you will succeed and dont let the haters bring you down! i am so happy and confident with my decision (i did doubt it the first 4 days post op) but now i wouldnt change a thing!

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