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I'm Officially A Failure:(

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ready2bskinny    31

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I cheated on my pre op diet and surgery is Tuesday.. I was doing ok too*sigh*

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Nate    292

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Its ok... Just get back on the waggon and pretend nothing happened

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O.T.R. sleever    3,386

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I cheated on my pre op diet and surgery is Tuesday.. I was doing ok too*sigh*

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Your "officially a failure"? Sorry to hear you've given up.

Wait, what was that you said? You say you are gonna try again? Well, in that case I think you might have misunderstood the meaning of failure. Everybody slips, everybody falls. The difference between being a success or a failure is getting up 1 more time.

Now take this can of Bactien, spray off your skinned knee, then tighten up your boots and start climbing again.

You will not "fail" not as long as we are here. We won't let you.

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ready2bskinny    31

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Awwwww you guys are seriously AWESOME!!!! THANK YOU for your support;)

It feels horrible! But ill get back up, start my liquid diet tomorrow and hopefully with a smile!

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suegirl    109

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Oh dear... we all cheated at some point... Nothing too serious.. You just have to remember to get back up on that wagon and move on.. it doesn't make you a failure.. it means you're human...

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kimbernada    190

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Also, don't say "tomorrow"... say "right now". :) Even if you aren't going to eat/drink anything until tomorrow, you are actually starting right now.

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Looking Ahead    239

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I cheated on mine for the last 5 days before surgery. I watched what I ate but just didn't use the "powder" they sold me to eat. I still lost and I fine for surgery. Don't bet yourself up....start over right now.

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ready2bskinny    31

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You're right ladies I'm starting now;)

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theoldmusicbox    399

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One misstep does not a failure make.

i love this one. however, i could not help but to read it in yoda's voice.

ready2bskinny, we all have bad days, the choices you make on whether to start over again, or lay down and die will be the difference between a bad day, and a bad life.

you can do this, we all need help at one point or another.

life is good.

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Justine13    264

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Nothing is a failure unless you do not learn from it :)

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ready2bskinny    31

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Thanks everyone;)

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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