Surgery 10/5

[kbaith25 38]

Hi all I am scheduled for my surgery on October 9 , I am 31 years olds with diabetes type 2 , hypertension and high cholesterol . I am mainly doing this bc I want to change the course of my life ... I know I am on the path down a dangerous road , I was diagnosed wih dm II after gestational diabetes with my son . I was about 220 when I became pregnant .

I am nervous about the surgery but I am more nervous about dialysis in the future or any other number of complications i am headed towards .. Any words of advice is welcome

[RJ'S/beginning 5,357]

I go for my pre op appointment on the 19 Sept. I am very excited.....I was told that my surgery will happen first part of Oct. Keep in the front of your mind the reasons you have made this choice.....Some where on here is a list of stuff you will possibly need for your stay at the hospital......start preparing yourself now if you have not already by changing habits and gathering the Vitamins you will need....etc. Buy something a couple sizes smaller then you are now so you can see your progress through that......No one said this is the easy way....it will be a bumpy ride.....but think of all the things you will gain from it....esp. the new you....with fewer health problems no doubt........keep yourself positive in this journey.........and remember you deserve it as much as anyone else.......we are here.....for you and you for us.....the best to you on your journey to a healthier you.......

[samsmom 54]

From what i've read on other forums, some folks with diabetes were able to reduce/stop their insulin. As for me, I have/had hypertension too...however, my doctor took me off my hbp meds even before I left the hospital. Try to keep a positive mind & outlook. Good luck to you on your surgery & journey.

[kbaith25 38]

Thanks everyone , I am glad this support group is here !!! It's a must for people like me with anxiety about it ... I know it's for the best

[RJ'S/beginning 5,357]

you make it sound so tragic.....it is normal to have anxiety about all of it..if you didn't that would not be normal....this is not an easy route we are taking..this will take dedication and will power......and it is all about you and the choices you will make to better yourself........you have taken steps already....you should be very proud of yourself and as you watch the new you unfold...it will be because you used the tools that they gave you and succeeded......

[kbaith25 38]

I'm just having major

Pre surgery jitters ... Never had surgery

[RJ'S/beginning 5,357]

you know what...you have every right to have those jitters.....not knowing what to expect is half the problem...talk to your doctor and he/she should help you figure out some of the issues..and ease your mind some.....write them down on a piece of paper....the what if.....page and ask your Dr......you are a very strong person to make this decision.......esp. since you have never had surgery before........I know you will be okay!

[doxieville 799]

My surgeon asked me how I was feeling about the surgery in my Pre-op exam a week before my surgery. I said 'anxious, nervous. And a bit scared.'. He said that was good. It's the cocky people who have no fears that he gets concerned about. And as a side note he said that those people are the ones who usually have the bumpier ride bcs they aren't prepared.

So, embrace your fears! They will help guide & educate you towards a wonderful, healthier you!

:-)