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Hello fellow november sleevers!! My name is George. I'm 29' date=' I'm being sleeved on 11/05/2012..I am so nervous..But, I'm so tired of consyantly going up and down with my weight..I've been really struggling the last 8 years with this..I feel like my weight robbed me of my 20's..I am looking forward to a new me!! I know it's going to take a lot of hard work on my part. But I am willing..This is the kickstart I need. I plan on meeting with dr's and going to the support groups long after my surgery. I want to change my brain too! I'm glad we have this group and can talk with eachother!![/quote']

I started my journey a long time ago when I lived in Mass but was unsuccessful. This was due to insurance issues. I miss my home state but NOT the cold weather. Best of luck to ya!

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Hi, Ainsleet. It's nice to see a "mature" person on here. I'm 63 and was thinking that I may be the only grandma getting surgery. Congratulations to US!

Sadly, I'm mature too! I've wasted my entire life being fat -- I'm hoping this will be the start of my second "birth".....

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I agree.... I'm considering November 30th my "new birthday" , a fresh start to a new and healthier life. one that I plan on living to the fullest...

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Welcome George, nice to see some men among us. I have had quite a few surgeries, nothing to be afraid of, besides they will give you some nice sedatives beforehand to calm you down. You know what my motto has been for years? "I would rather have surgery than a cold". A cold, you just keep trudging along doing what you have to do and feeling horrible. Surgery, it is socially acceptable to recover.

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Welcome George' date=' nice to see some men among us. I have had quite a few surgeries, nothing to be afraid of, besides they will give you some nice sedatives beforehand to calm you down. You know what my motto has been for years? "I would rather have surgery than a cold". A cold, you just keep trudging along doing what you have to do and feeling horrible. Surgery, it is socially acceptable to recover.[/quote']

thank you so much for your kind, encouraging words! I really like that motto about the cold :-) I am going to try and stay calm during the next few weeks. I have to realize that I've work so hard for this and it's going to change my life in a good way! Im glad I found this site. People who haven't struggled would never understand

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change cold to what ever feels right for you.

I'd rather have surgery than a heart attack, or shame, or be fat.... you get the drift.

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Just got all the info from the Dr. lots to read and a lot of instructions. I got approved for two Weeks paid time off plus FMLA from my job and everything is coming together. Just waiting for my passport and plane ticket to come in the mail and saving some more money to pay for the rest of my surgery...crazy! 40 more days..ready!

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change cold to what ever feels right for you.

I'd rather have surgery than a heart attack' date=' or shame, or be fat.... you get the drift.[/quote']

I get the drift. And you are so right. I'm glad I'm taking care of this while I'm faulty young. Im going to steal your saying :-)

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Hello November Sleevers -

My name is Yael and I'm 50 years young! I live in Israel, but am orignally from Rhode Island. Insurance here is different, but still a process! I'm married and have an 18 year old daughter entering the Israel Defense Force in November. My second daughter is 15 and quite the teenager.

I'm looking forward to having the sleeve. Originally I was scheduled for the band on 10/17/12. After meeting with the dietian I've changed my mind and now must meet with another surgeon. That appointment is 11/7. He said he has open dates for November.....so I hoping I can get this done soon!!!!

Looking forward to chatting with others going thru the same experiences. There are support channels here....but my Hebrew is terrible and would never be able to be on a site with Hebrew speakers (typers).

I'm looking forward to the next 50 healthy years of my life!!!! :D

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Hello Yael and welcome! You'll find that this site is full of friendly , helpful, and informative people.... I know it has been really helpful to me. Congratulations and good luck on your journey

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Welcome Yael ! So very glad to have you ! Keep us updated on our progress.

I have my next appt on the 17th of this month ( next week ) and am anxious to speak with my doctor. i was scheduled for the band but called and told them i wanted the sleeve instead. I hope to hear about my approval from my insurance on this new procedure. I already had my approval for the band. Woo Hoo ...exciting days ahead !

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Welcome Yael. I hope all goes well for you and all my fellow November Sleevers! Would it be too early to suggest a New Years contest? Lol. It's a good incentive for us. Haha!

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I think a New Years contest would be awesome! A great motivation to succeed.... I'm in

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I figure if some are at the tail end of the month, they still have a full month to participate. And what a way to start the new year right. I plan on hitting 2013 running. Lol

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I'm in!

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