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ok, I am hungry!!!... i know i feel like i am nagging. I just had stuff that i was not supposed to have , at all!!!. so guess what i felt like my chest was about to explode... so what is next ? I threw up !!!

i am getting frustrated. My husband is not supportive at all and not helpful, he had the lapband about 3 years ago and was not sucessfull i feel as if he is wating for me to fail too. i do not regret doing the surgery but i wish i had more support. i hope i can make it thru this

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im so sorry to hear you are struggling. Forgive yourself and move on. tomorriw is a new day girl!

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I;m in the same boat but pre op. I know I wil not get any support. My husband is already complaining about what are we going to do when we go out to eat. I know if I prepare food at home he will not want to eat low calorie food so I guess I will just worry about me for a change.

You will not fail because we are all here for you. You can come and vent 24 hours a day 7 days a week. You may not get replies instantly but you will get replies. You can make it thru this I know you can. :rolleyes:

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You can do this, you know why, because you don't have any choice.You ate something you should not have-and your body reacted, you won't make that mistake again.Sometimes you have tho look else where for support when it is not forth coming at home, been there, done that. Just hang in there, remember you did this for you, don't let anything/anyone discourage you from your goal.

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Ladies! Stand up and fight for you! Remind your husbands that you made promises to each other for better or worse, in sickness and in health and that YOU are doing this for YOU! You want to be healthy, happy and around to spend the rest of your life with him.

Be proud of yourselves!

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I was sleeved July 5th and darn it I'm hungry too! please forgive yourself and look at this as a journey not a judgement and lets check in tomorrow!!!

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