I posted earlier in the summer about how my husband left me, deciding that after 20 years he no longer wishes to be married....well, I'm trying to move forward, and would love to have a dog! Problem: I'm a teacher, leaving around 7:30 each morning, returning around 3:45ish. Is that too long to leave a dog? I would LOVE to get a golden retriever puppy, but am thinking that wouldn't work. I am looking at rescue shelters, but not sure of a breed - mutts work too. I'm looking for people's suggestions! I am more than willing to do a big walk each day and each afternoon when I get home........I have no children, so this would be a "doted" on dog, lol...what do you think? Can I try a puppy? I have read about crating, and training and all that - what do you think? I have a large yard, but it is not fenced - dog would be an inside dog most of the time, unless on a leash.

If you can fence your yard and put in a doggy door so they have all day access..then get a big dog. If it truly is going to be an inside dog...the go with a toy breed.

I have:

A 7 year old Chihuahua....fantastic dog and not anything like the stereotype of small dogs.

I have a 5 year old "Daschua" Daschund/Chi mix.

I have a 2 year old Rat Terrier.....Holy hell on 4 feet. I love her to death but she will run you ragged and wouldn't make a good indoor dog.

I have a 1 year old Boxer....also an incredible dog. If you are stuck on a big dog...do some research on these dogs....they are incredible....and I would highly recommend either a Boxer to the big dog fan or a Chi to a small dog fan.

As you can see.....we are dog lovers.

First, I'd like to suggest a fence before the dog. It will save you time/effort when you are home to let the dog out without having to always join it. If you can do it ,financially, you'll be glad you did!

I'm with the getting the older dog group. Because it is just you and the dog, it would be an ideal situation.

Good luck. Shawn

The time away is fine (our dog is alone from 7:30 - 5) but housetraining might be difficult. I suggest reading a few books before deciding on a puppy (I think one of the Dummies books helped us when our dog was a puppy) because the first year can be very difficult if you work, difficult for you and the dog.

I think it's a wonderful idea though! Dogs are just wonderful and bring so much joy. Best wishes to you in this new stage of your life.