New attention from the opposite sex...... Is driving me crazy!

Ok, So I have told y'all I manage a bar part time..... I have been having to work a lot lately and Tuesday night I got three phone numbers put in my tip jars. Now, I think that this is suppose to be a good thing. Right?

You see here is my issue..... I have a wonderful boyfriend..... but things haven't been great lately and all the attention I have been getting (or he thinks I have been getting) is changing him. He use to be confident and he had a great security about him. Now all I hear is how I can do so much better and he has gotten so insecure. I hate this. Have I done this to him? I thought I was doing something good for both of us. I have watched the most amazing man I have ever met turn into so many I have left in the past. My love and attraction to him hasn't changed one bit. I don't understand why this is happening. I want him to be proud that other men look at me and know that not one of them will ever have me because I'm with him.

What do I do? Someone can only reassure someone so much until they get fed up and walk away. I don't want to do that.

I'm so sad right now...... My future with him was looking so bright and now I see that wonderful light slowly dimming.

Anyone else have this problem? what can I do to make this better?

Julie honey, please be very careful. . . he may be sweet and seem "to be getting better" after the talk, I realize you love him and all, but please please be careful. . . i work with a metro health dept in a 2+ million population city and see this everyday. . . unfortunately I also see the outcome and sometimes the woman never sees the light of day the next day. . . please be careful. .

I will. Thank you for your concern. I have been in that situation before and got out. Some people are just crazy. I will be as careful as possible.

I just wanted to update everyone who was concerned... I have broke it off with my bf. I'd like to say that I am sad about it but I have relief also.

Good luck dear. I hear you about the relief... that tells a powerful story.