So I was banded a few months ago and I have now lost over 55 lbs I work out every day and fit into "human size" clothes. OK I look damn good! At least thats what everyone tells me, that is everyone except my wife. Things are going down hill for us, the lighter I get the heavier she gets. The lighter I get the more my eye wanders.

Is anyone elses marriage on the rocks?

Saul,

Good for you! You deserve the best and so does your wife. I certainly did not intend to be a basher........ I do think that you being honest about what is happening is a good thing. You were needing advice and you got it! Good for you for acting on it!! Good luck. Keep us posted.

I realize that my wife is the best thing that has ever occurred to me and no blonde hottie is worth giving that up for.

So yes, it feels great to be a sex object to other women and it feels great to be propositioned, but I AM STAYING HOME!

You just got SEXIER Saul.

Atta Boy!!

Saul that was a brave move you made. I wish you and your wife the best. When there is love all things can be handled.

I'm glad to see your message too, Saul. Good marriages are irreplaceable, and I wish you and your wife all the best of a long, healthy life together!!

Ditto on the "You just got sexier Saul" comment!!!

I hope everything works out for you!