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Attn: Gay & Bi Men:

Would you all be interested in joining a google, yahoo, etc. group (whichever platform i try and see what works best)for ONLY Gay/Bi men that have had or are having WLS, so that we can all post whatever it is that we may be going through that we may not nevessarily want written on vst. Of course nothing would be off limits and it would all be with confidence that it's just us men, it would be private and I'd be happy to run it. What do y'all think???

Johnathan

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Hi Jonathan

I would consider joining would be good to talk to other men about our surgery and progress.

Just to make it clear to Any female persons reading this I enjoy seeing their post but I would like to see more men post so we can compare

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I agree. Having a breakout space would be cool. I've never used Google groups (I don't think)...is it easy to use?

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Hi Jonathan

I would consider joining would be good to talk to other men about our surgery and progress.

Just to make it clear to Any female persons reading this I enjoy seeing their post but I would like to see more men post so we can compare

Lol I don't think having more men post is a problem. This thread is mostly men. I've decided I must be one of the very few "token lesbians" on VST.

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Lol I don't think having more men post is a problem. This thread is mostly men. I've decided I must be one of the very few "token lesbians" on VST.

I don't necessarily mean more men but ONLY men lol. Somewhere where we can talk about anything!!

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I agree. Having a breakout space would be cool. I've never used Google groups (I don't think)...is it easy to use?

Yea it'll be easy

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I just wanted to post and say that I'm not "really gay," but my brother, my aunt and several of my very close friends are. I think it's great that everyone is here to post and support each other. I'm sorry that no one ever finished the story, I was excited to see where it went. :)

Good luck and CONGRATULATIONS to all of you! Both in WLS & family, bear, etc. stuff. :D I'll be checking back for that story...

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lesbian here too!!!! Just more of a stalker on here cause don't see very many posts from the ladies!!! but have enjoyed the bear stories and non bear ones also

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@beachlover: I LOVE your little hat in your pic. :D Next pic should be same hat but with a giant smile. ;)

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I just wanted to post and say that I'm not "really gay," but my brother, my aunt and several of my very close friends are. I think it's great that everyone is here to post and support each other. I'm sorry that no one ever finished the story, I was excited to see where it went. :)

Good luck and CONGRATULATIONS to all of you! Both in WLS & family, bear, etc. stuff. :D I'll be checking back for that story...

Which story are you referring to?

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Which story are you referring to?

This thread starting July 7th

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Which story are you referring to?

once upon a time there was a guy who hid in the closet and gained a lot of weight... oh heck I don't remember it all but it was starting to go somewhere and then it stopped. :D

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lesbian here too!!!! Just more of a stalker on here cause don't see very many posts from the ladies!!! but have enjoyed the bear stories and non bear ones also

Yeah, there aren't many of us here. We just kind of lurk in the background on this thread. But that's ok, I support the boys too. : )

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OK Men, I created a page! Below is the link to the Gay Sleevers group. I made the first post, please respond and lets get more posts going & make this group busy!

https://groups.google.com/forum/?fromgroups&hl=en#!forum/gay-sleevers

Johnathan

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OK Men' date=' I created a page! Below is the link to the Gay Sleevers group. I made the first post, please respond and lets get more posts going & make this group busy!

https://groups.google.com/forum/?fromgroups&hl=en#!forum/gay-sleevers

Johnathan[/quote']

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