Do most of you tell friends,family or people at work about having WLS or do you keep it private. I guess they will figure it out but not sure how many people I want to know about it in the early stages.

What did you do?

Downinsocal, we should talk. The kids are all grown. This woman, and the two daughters have put me through sheer hell for ten years now, so much that we moved several hours away just to avoid them. Sounds like we may be in similar situations. It all came to a major head in March with a heartbreaking discovery that almost resulted in the end of my marriage. Fortunately, we have battled back and saved our marriage, but I still consider myself to be in recovery mode.