I am down 70 lbs and have been off birth control for 8 months. Why am I still not pregnant? My surgeon kept telling me that I had to be careful because I'd get pregnant as soon as I missed a pill and my husband and I have been trying for a while. What's the deal?

That's a loaded question! I was off birth control for 8 months as well before I got pregnant. I was very close to going to see a specialist. Most doctors recommend you see a specialist if you haven't gotten pregnant in a year and you are under 35.

There is no good answer for you, however. It really depends on your medical history! Have you ever been tested for any fertility issues before?

Unfortunately there could be a lot going on that has absolutely nothing to do with your weight. Heck, it could even be an issue with your husband. You best bet is for you both to get thoroughly checked out to figure out where the problem is.

It took me a little while to get pregnant after the lapband, although we were using fertility medication. After the pill it can take a little time anyway. I have heard most drs mention that if your not pregnant within 12 months to seek assistance.

I'm in that state now. My hubby & I have been trying for about 3 yrs now. I did the lap band 1 year ago exactly and still nothing. Come to find out my hubby has low sperm count. So you may want to talk to a reproductive specialist. Good luck trying.