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Time To Stop The Chick Sh*t!!!!!

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Banjo257    920

Banjo257
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New comers this is NOT for you.

This is for the "ladies" that are acting like junior high mean girls.

Now the funny thing is a stereotype mean girl is blonde skinny big ego....and except for the blonde, if that was us we wouldn't be on LBT.

We are here to ask, give, and receive from each other.

How about if you don't have something nice to say, SHUT UP.

The new people deserve better. And to the new people, don't let a few bad apples scare you off.

Welcome, I'm banjo257, I am waiting to be banded and I would love to give a pat on the back to anyone that is deserving, a hand to pull up anyone that has fallen, and a foot to, well you get the idea.

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audreycat123    59

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While I agree that the outward snippiness that you are referring to is uncalled for, I also don't come here for sugary niceties. I appreciate all of the super support, some of which comes in a slightly sour package. Just because it is not what I want to hear doesn't mean it's not what I NEED to hear. I think that is the appreciation that was lacking in that threads originator.

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☠carolinagirl☠    18,722

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well, i tried to answer honestly and was surprised to see that person to react that way towards me.

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audreycat123    59

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well' date=' i tried to answer honestly and certainly did not mean for that person to react that way.

oh well...[/quote']

lol......You should have just said "you will loose twenty pounds by Thanksgiving, guaranteed. We all did." Seems like that was the sort of answer she expected. Jeepers.

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☠carolinagirl☠    18,722

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lol......You should have just said "you will loose twenty pounds by Thanksgiving, guaranteed. We all did." Seems like that was the sort of answer she expected. Jeepers.

thats funny audrey

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Jenilou78    31

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The response to CG's comment was a classic sign of narcissistic personality, sabotage then pass blame, repeat.

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cheryl2586    3,053

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Well everyone needs a swift kick once in a while. No one should be offended by it or get their panties in a bunch because they don't get the answer they deserve. My God we are all adults everyone isnt gonna tell ya what you want to hear every single time. Suck it up and move on.

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BandedBettyBoop    36

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Yes, you should all suck it up and move on.

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cheryl2586    3,053

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I see that dieting is working well for you. Maybe you should eat so your attitude will get better. Skip the preop oh h-ll skip the whole band it isnt setting well with you

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BandedBettyBoop    36

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I have plenty of dignity, unlike the middle aged women who have so much to say about me, I'm also mature. But I stand up for myself and have disrespected no one in the process. Mis73 is it okay for ppl to call me a b**** because they didn't like what I said? "B*+** must not know who we are" really?! Lol That's mature. Is there a lapband talk gang?

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