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So I am about 2 and 1/2 weeks post-op. Wife is 4 weeks post-op. We had sex for the first time yesterday and she was so tight that it was actually uncomfortable. Do you guys think this was due to the surgeries, the month without sex, or a combination of both? I sure hope it gets better because I could not penetrate.

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Most likely the absence of sex for a month... Try it again a few times it will get better

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We've tried a couple of time, but still kinda painful. Guess we'll just have to keep trying. :wacko:

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That sounds like a fine plan to me :) lol

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That sounds like a fine plan to me :) lol

Thanks for your input. I appreciate it!

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"Houston, we have liftoff" :D

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YAY!!!... Thats awesome... Feelin like a rocket ride myself today lol

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this is quite the blunt thread!

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Hahaha! That's all!

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this is quite the blunt thread!

Well don't read it then!!

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*blink blink*

me calling it a blunt thread isn't a negative comment. It was an observation. I'm far from a prude.

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My Bad!! LOL Guess you can't hear a tone of voice in written words!!

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I had issues two weeks post op as well. Scared me enough to see the Gyn. found out I had a severe yeast infection and didn't realize it.

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Oh yea you so just reminded me of a post op situation ..i to had a yeast infection due to antibiotics!

So if she is still feeling any discomfort it wouldnt hurt to check with the doc.

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