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I'm Nov 7th

Good luck today!!! This is the start of a new LIFE!!!!

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Well my surgery was approved last Wednesday and I am all set for my surgery this Thursday. I started my general liquids diet today and on Wednesday I go to a clear liquid diet. I am surprised how calm I am right now only being 3 days away from the surgery. Good luck to everyone that has surgery today.

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Hi

I get banded on the 10th and I am super excited and nervous!! Good luck to all of us!!

HELLO!!! I saw October and even December Bansters but no November...so I thought I would start the November Bansters! I called the Insurance company and I got a verbal approval. If all goes well I will be banded on November 14, 2011. Woo-hoo!! 11/11 will be the beginning of a WONDERFUL NEW LIFE!! I can't wait to do this for ME!!

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Tomorrow (11/8) is my BIG day! unsure.gif 2pm. Nervous and excited at the same time. So wish me luck and I'll get back in a day or two to let you all know how it went. smile.gif

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FMLA is your right! I am in the HR field. If you have worked 1250 within a year and the company you work for has more than 50 employees by law your boss must grant you Fmla. They must hold your job or an equal position with the same rate of pay for up to 12 weeks. If she does not they could have a big lawsuit on their hands. If she grants it to you and the gives you a hard time upon your return then you can sue for retaliation. Contact the department of labor first and then the EEOC if she doesn't grant it. Contact your companies HR department too! It makes me angry when employers try to bypass federal law!

Thank you Lisa. I am a nurse and work for a large hospital. I definatey supercede the requirements. I believe I worked more than 1700 hours. I actually spoke with HR today and they handled it thank goodness! They really had my back and I am grateful. They asked for me to obtain a letter from my surgeons office stating that it was medically necessary and then they would email my manager telling her that she needed to sign my paperwork. The one thing I noticed was that HR wanted my surgeons office to state what specifically that I was having done. I didn't think they could ask that due to HIPAA? I called my surgeons office and they wrote a vague letter to protect my health information by stating (This laparoscopic procedure was approved and deemed medically necessary due to health reasons, Approximate time off of work would be from such and such date to such and such date). I honestly believe nobody needs to know what I am doing except for my surgeon, and my family.

I was worried that HR wouldn't back me up, but I was very surprised at the help I have received. I have never taken FMLA ever so this was a whole new process for me. Thank you so much for the advice. :)

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ready set go!!!!!! Surgery tomorrow nov 8th at 1145 am! So excited but that anxiety is bubblin to the surface too! I wish all of us nov 8th bandsters a safe surgery and a healthy happy and speedy recovery!

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Good luck to all banded this week and all month. 3 more days til surgery this is day 4 of preop diet have lost 7 pounds. Like most I hope I am doing right. They talk alot about Protein and calories like my diet is 800 - 1000 calories and no less than 60 Proteins per day but only mention keeping carbs low. I have been constantly modifying to get my proteins in sometimes to get them I have to up the calories closer to the 1000 mark then id like to be. Does anyone know what a good number is?

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Did I fail to mention how nervous iam. I dont know which one is worse the excitement of what could be or the anxiety of the surgery itself.

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I am set to be banded on the 11th! I go in at 5:30 and have surgery at 7:30! The pre op diet is rough. I'm a stay at home mom to 4 small kids and trying to prepare meals for them and dinner at night for my husband is the hardest!

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I am set to be banded on the 11th! I go in at 5:30 and have surgery at 7:30! The pre op diet is rough. I'm a stay at home mom to 4 small kids and trying to prepare meals for them and dinner at night for my husband is the hardest!

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Here I am in the hospital waitin to get ion the prresurgery stuff done Scarred and happy. Wish me luck.

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You'll be fine... Trust me !

Shirley.

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Leaving in about 15 minutes to head to the hospital for my surgery which is scheduled for 2pm. Mixed bag of emotions - nervous, excited, happy - knowing that I am on the threshold of a new life - a mulligan. Sigh . . . Life is Good! rolleyes.gif

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Thanks Shirkey, even to the were a bit slow, once I got un It was fast then

I had to stay over tonight. It s a big single room. Bathroom is bigger than one of

My bedrooms. I hope all the 8ther banders are doing fine.

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Hey guys!!! My surgery is on November 15! My pre op diet is very strict compared to most that I have seen on this website. 3 Protein Shakes, I am doing muscle milk lite, and 8-10 glasses of Water. So far I have lost 15 pounds. I cannot wait!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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