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Not too many people talk about it.. but I wanted to!!

So I am down 77.2 lbs...before I lost weight I was not interested in sex and became quite shy in the bedroom ( i am a lights out kinda gal)!!!! Now quite honestly things are so much better in the bedroom~ I can't believe how much better sex is! Anyone else agree???? My husband is quite happy with my results!

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Not too many people talk about it.. but I wanted to!!

So I am down 77.2 lbs...before I lost weight I was not interested in sex and became quite shy in the bedroom ( i am a lights out kinda gal)!!!! Now quite honestly things are so much better in the bedroom~ I can't believe how much better sex is! Anyone else agree???? My husband is quite happy with my results!

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Funny to see your post because I could not agree more! I had this same thought today. I am feeling much more comfortable with my body and "fitting" much better/position wise with my husband. Yahoo! :D

Joan

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I can't wait till I loose the weight....I know what you mean about the "fit".

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My hubs married me at my highest weight, and we've never had issues in that departmento ;) The idea of things getting even better after weightloss.... woohoo!

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I have a new boyfriend... and I thought I would feel better about sex, but honestly I am still self conscious ~ it used to be because I was fat, but now its because I am paranoid about the loose skin... i hate it, its so ugly and I feel squishy lol. I look 100 times better in clothes and have alot of confidence while clothed, but I was very paranoid the first time he and i did the deed. He told me not to worry about it, but I still do. Once I get this whole thing paid for, I am going to do the Tummy Tuck & boob job. ;)

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I'm more adventurous in bed now and love being on top. I'm also more willing to let him just look at me naked and not try and cover up.

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My husband is totally against this surgery, but I read this post to him over the phone and I think now he is really coming over to my side.....:lol:

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My husband is totally against this surgery, but I read this post to him over the phone and I think now he is really coming over to my side.....:lol:

Its good for him to be on your side with your surgery! I told my husband Yes, it was for me... but think about it! When I am "Thinner"... just think of the things we can do! And its just been amazing! And yes I love being on top now too! ITS GREAT EXERCISE!!! LOL. Just amazing how much better things can get with losing weight!!!

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I totally think it improves sex life. I love how much better everything is - and it's all about 'the fit' and also, stamina!! I don't get winded when things get 'crazy' :)

I've always loved sex with my husband but now it's even better. I can't wait to see how good it's gonna get!

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My BF has seen me up and down with the scale, so that is not a concern. I hate the squishy skin on my belly and usually need to drape something across there. He does not care at all, but I do. Things were always pretty good in the sex dept, but are are a bit more athletic these days. LOL

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