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Sex???

Not too many people talk about it.. but I wanted to!!

So I am down 77.2 lbs...before I lost weight I was not interested in sex and became quite shy in the bedroom ( i am a lights out kinda gal)!!!! Now quite honestly things are so much better in the bedroom~ I can't believe how much better sex is! Anyone else agree???? My husband is quite happy with my results!

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  • My hubs married me at my highest weight, and we've never had issues in that departmento The idea of things getting even better after weightloss.... woohoo!

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Not too many people talk about it.. but I wanted to!!

So I am down 77.2 lbs...before I lost weight I was not interested in sex and became quite shy in the bedroom ( i am a lights out kinda gal)!!!! Now quite honestly things are so much better in the bedroom~ I can't believe how much better sex is! Anyone else agree???? My husband is quite happy with my results!

Check out my blog below!

Funny to see your post because I could not agree more! I had this same thought today. I am feeling much more comfortable with my body and "fitting" much better/position wise with my husband. Yahoo! :D

Joan

I can't wait till I loose the weight....I know what you mean about the "fit".

My hubs married me at my highest weight, and we've never had issues in that departmento ;) The idea of things getting even better after weightloss.... woohoo!

I have a new boyfriend... and I thought I would feel better about sex, but honestly I am still self conscious ~ it used to be because I was fat, but now its because I am paranoid about the loose skin... i hate it, its so ugly and I feel squishy lol. I look 100 times better in clothes and have alot of confidence while clothed, but I was very paranoid the first time he and i did the deed. He told me not to worry about it, but I still do. Once I get this whole thing paid for, I am going to do the tummy tuck & boob job. ;)

I'm more adventurous in bed now and love being on top. I'm also more willing to let him just look at me naked and not try and cover up.

My husband is totally against this surgery, but I read this post to him over the phone and I think now he is really coming over to my side.....:lol:

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My husband is totally against this surgery, but I read this post to him over the phone and I think now he is really coming over to my side.....:lol:

Its good for him to be on your side with your surgery! I told my husband Yes, it was for me... but think about it! When I am "Thinner"... just think of the things we can do! And its just been amazing! And yes I love being on top now too! ITS GREAT EXERCISE!!! LOL. Just amazing how much better things can get with losing weight!!!

I totally think it improves sex life. I love how much better everything is - and it's all about 'the fit' and also, stamina!! I don't get winded when things get 'crazy' :)

I've always loved sex with my husband but now it's even better. I can't wait to see how good it's gonna get!

My BF has seen me up and down with the scale, so that is not a concern. I hate the squishy skin on my belly and usually need to drape something across there. He does not care at all, but I do. Things were always pretty good in the sex dept, but are are a bit more athletic these days. LOL

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