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Hi my name is Maddy and I really want the lap band surgery but I'm not sure if I'm too young. I've heard a few stories about people who have had the surgery who are my age and are fine but I'm still curious. I would have never considered this before but I've done everything to try to loose weight and I can't . My parent's are fine with it but I want to know if there's anyone out there who's got any useful information about life after. I've been teased about my weight before an one girl got detention because of what she said. Another girl I used to know asked me if I was still fat on Facebook chat and then after arguing she said "f**k you fatty" and I feel like it's only going to get worse. If any one has any useful information please let me know.

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HI mandy

I got mine done when i was 21 and any 1 i ask says the wish they had got thears wen the wear younger so go for it

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Thank you for the advice

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Hi Maddy, how old are you? I just got the lapband 5 weeks ago, I'm 34 but my daughter is 17 and we are looking into it for her. Our insurance won't let her until she is 18 so she will start her 6 month supervised diet in about 5 months so she is ready as soon as she turns 18. My only worry for her is that she won't follow the rules when she goes to college as she is going to go 800 miles from home. I wish you the best and hope it works out for you. Good luck!

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I was 24 when I had mine done and wish I would have done it sooner.

It depends on your maturity level and if you feel you'll be able to stick to the rules to make it work.

How old are you an where do you live?

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well i'm quite young compared to most of the people looking into the lap-band but my mom had a similar surgery so I know what the lap-band is about. I probably wouldn't have it done in the U.S.

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Hey a young lady was at my seminar and the surgeon advised her that she needed to be at least 18 years old. How old are you?

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Hi there dear! I was fourteen when I had my Lapband placed and would have to say it was one of the best decisions I have ever made. Not only have I lost 120 pounds, but I also have kept it off. My insurance wouldn't pay for the Lapband surgery for me so my parents took out a loan and paid for it out of pocket. It was a huge investment but I can't guarantee I would still be here today if they hadn't done this for me. I am here to talk to you if you need anyone to talk to or you'd like to ask some more questions. I hope you make the decision that is best for you and only you!

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Hey, I got my surgery done when I was 16 (And I still am!)

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Hi there dear! I was fourteen when I had my Lapband placed and would have to say it was one of the best decisions I have ever made. Not only have I lost 120 pounds, but I also have kept it off. My insurance wouldn't pay for the Lapband surgery for me so my parents took out a loan and paid for it out of pocket. It was a huge investment but I can't guarantee I would still be here today if they hadn't done this for me. I am here to talk to you if you need anyone to talk to or you'd like to ask some more questions. I hope you make the decision that is best for you and only you!

Thanks that really helps because I'm only 13 and I really want to get it done and everyone one here is IME 16 or 17 or 18 at the least. So that really helps

Thanks

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Sorry I'm on my phone and it has predictive text and I'm not sure where the IME came from.

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Just being me how old were you when you had your surgery?

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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