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My name is Lesia (pronounced Lisa), and I was banded on 8/20/10. I started this journey last year, but with my BMI (right at 39), I needed co-morbidities that I didn't have. So I dropped it.

I looked into it again in Jun, went to the doctor;s seminar, scheduled a sleep study. I do have sleep apnea, but it isn;t bad enough, according to my insurance. Hubby and I talked and decided to do selfpay.

I had my first appt with the doctor on 8/4, then back on 8/16 to schedule surgery for 8/20.

I'm doing pretty good with the liquid part, but it sure is boring. My belly is still swollen, but the pain is way better today. Still taking it easy, though.

I did read here a lot before deciding to do the surgery, you guys have lots of info, thanks.

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Honestly Lesia - you are in the hardest part of the journey. Not to say it is all roses from there, but being on a liquid diet or mushies and then soft foods is not fun when the swelling eventually subsides and your appetite comes back.

Just remember that when it happens what you are experiencing is normal. Also, if you being to have feelings like "why did I do this to myself", that is pretty normal too. The first several months are tough with adjusting to having the band, not being at the proper restriction and also learning how to deal with head hunger and whatever your issues are with food.

I encourage you do get support, perhaps in multiple ways...an exercise buddy/walking buddy, attend support group sessions, involve family members if possible, and also other bandsters since they have a better idea of what you are going through. Keep your Protein intake up, try and get in adequate Fiber which helps to keep you satiated also, and remember there are alot of people on here happy to answer any questions you have.

I wish you the very best and all the success you deserve! Congratulations on the start of your new life!

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Congrat on new band. I was banded on 8/16. Cant be happier. The only pain i have is that pesky shoulder pain. Feeling good now that im on mushy food. Hope everything goes well for you. Heres to a better way of life ongoing.

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hi all i am also a newly banded person. i had my band done on 8/19/2010. so any advise is greatly appriciated!

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:)Hi, newly banded also, the 24th. I appreciate all the information here, knowing that feelings and thoughts are normal and progress is slow but oh so worth it. I am blessed with little pain, but also bored with liquids.......post op appt next wed. Keep up the good work everyone and thanks for all the advice ,it is a comfort:thumbup:

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Good luck and it seems to be the case that people with lower starting BMI do not lose as fast - remember it may be slow and steady but it will happen.

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Hello,

I was banded on aug 19 and I am stilll on the liquids as well. It has been very hard but I know that it will be worth it in the long run. You have to take it one day at a time. Just think about much weight will be loss. The only uncomfort I have is where the port is located. Stay strong & positive. With all the support on the forum we all will make it!!!

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I was banded on the 18th but I'm on mushies now...Good thing bcuz the liquid stage gave me the runs!! LOL...Good luck to everyone!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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