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To each's own is what I think - do whatever floats your boat

Good luck!

I had pain at my port site, my ribs hurt as well - the port was bonking against that area and was just too large for me. I couldn't get comfortable when sitting or sleeping and sometimes it would be much worse than others but regardless everyday it was uncomfortable. So, I had my revision and had a low profile port put in,smaller and thinner and now I feel wonderful!

Well, my first blog here at lapbandtalk.com and I feel nervous - I mean what if someone actually reads this? I named it "1 pound at a time" because I have to start remembering that just like the Alcoholic Anonymous saying " one day at a time" it really is one pound at a time. I cannot keep looking so far ahead a that I lose sight of the here and now, the little triumphs and the little victories. So today was that little victory, I lost one pound - and I am fine with this as I haven't lost for a month - now I am proud to say I am 193.5! My goal this month is to hit 190 and I believe not only will I do it but I will exceed.... but again, one pound at a time... stop looking so far ahead that you set yourself up, that you become lax in your food and your exercise... these are the things I need to remember.

Well, my first blog here at lapbandtalk.com and I feel nervous - I mean what if someone actually reads this? I named it "1 pound at a time" because I have to start remembering that just like the Alcoholic Anonymous saying " one day at a time" it really is one pound at a time. I cannot keep looking so far ahead a that I lose sight of the here and now, the little triumphs and the little victories. So today was that little victory, I lost one pound - and I am fine with this as I haven't lost for a month - now I am proud to say I am 193.5! My goal this month is to hit 190 and I believe not only will I do it but I will exceed.... but again, one pound at a time... stop looking so far ahead that you set yourself up, that you become lax in your food and your exercise... these are the things I need to remember.

Hello I would be calling the Dr. or nutritionist back and asking for a very clear diet plan from them. This forum is awesome and has not only great advice but wonderful people as well. Personally, I would not change getting banded! I have more hope now than I ever have and I think for me it was the best decision I could have made. Welcome and good luck to you!

Hi there, I agree with dlmyvette, you do sound confused - the post made by dlmyvette is full of great advice. Take the time to make sure you understand this surgery and to make sure that you will be able to follow all the steps leading up to the surgery and after. And what really worries me is "referral and diagnosis's me Obese. He says he was only doing that because I asked for the surgery." Your doctor doesn't consider you obese and is only doing it because you asked him about the surgery? I really hope that is not the case. Going into this surgery blind will lead you down a path of disappointment and frustration. So ask lots of questions and remember that this site is full of wonderful educated people who are willing to help you on your way- I have been lucky to find many to help me

Hi there I suppose in little ways I have changed since my surgery, I feel more hopeful, I feel like I have a more positive outlook on life. But, I have not changed as far as who I am inside as a person. I still feel passionate about certain causes, I am still highly energized about my life goals but this time I have more energy to complete these goals. Good luck to you and have fun with your ever changing journey!

Hi Leese, yes I belong to the yahool group and have seen the meeting times. I just do not use that group much and cannot go to the meetings as besides working full time I go to college as well. Sounds like you are doing wonderful! Losing weight quickly - I am envious :tt2: Take care!

Oh my god LOL, I think that is awful of your friend but it made me snort my Water and laugh - I assume you are still friends?

I told everyone and still do, I am very comfortable with my decision to have surgery and tell people so. I have had a couple of odd comments but I head them off as soon as possible - nip it in the bud :tt2:

I wasn't even weighed that morning and trust me I was obsessed with thinking they would! Good luck to you and drink lots of water :tt2:

I have a nasty woman who works in my department who when she heard I was having surgery again (for my port revision mind you) said "oh are you having surgery again because it isn't working for you?" I kid you not!!! My weightloss is slow but I have lost 32 pounds since the beginning of June! I started to explain that I was a have port revision due to pain but then I thought "screw it, the woman is an idiot this much I know" and walked away from her.

The first time it was done I found it very painful - that is just me mind you. So being that I found to be that painful I asked for lidocaine for the next two fills, although I get picked on for that I am a much happier camper and wouldn't do it any other way :thumbup:

Hi Rosemary and Sweetie, a low profile port is a smaller and thinner port (at least that is how my surgeon described it), I had a port revision because the regular port was too large for the area under my ribs, it caused me continuous daily pain for months, I couldn't sit in a comfortable posistion, I couldn't sleep well at night and was generally unhappy with it. The new port is great, I do not have pain at all and am a happy camper these days!

I can relate for sure! One thing that really rang true for me was getting my first fill, it was painful even with fluoro and that was when I decided the only way I was going to get another was if they numbed me first - voila much more comfortable! I have had two more fills since then that have been numbed first. I should also say that I had a regular port for the first 5 months and then on November 19th I had a port revision and now have a low profile port. So that being said, there is no shame in getting a numbing shot first before you next fill - I was very adamant about it when I spoke to my surgeon and he finally understood how painful it was for me. I understand about losing focus and I struggle every day. I try to just track my food intake, exercise - even if it is only for 20 minutes at a time. Good luck, be assertive with your needs in regards to your fills and take good care of yourself :thumbup:

Hello to anyone who is reading this :Yawn: I started the thread and some how have neglected to see how everyone is doing! I guess I am doing pretty well, I have 5.5ccs in my 10cc band. Have good restriction mostly as long as I follow my proper eating habits as I am suppose to. I have really become more careful about my calories and keep track with FitDay.com - that is so important for me. If I do not keep on top of my calorie intake I find myself eating more and more - it really is accountability for m, e. I am stuck at 194.5 right now but I am really hoping to break through the 190's by the end of January - that is my little goal. Hope to catch up with some Vermonters (and anyone else) again soon!

I understand. I had my surgery June 16th 2008 and I have struggled to listen to my body while trying to quiet my mind hunger. I think that treats in moderation are great - except for myself they lead to little binges or just a slide back down for me - not saying this is true for everyone. Even today I am getting back on track after quite a food day yesterday, I move on and get over it. Good luck, be kind to yourself and remember tomorrow is another day!

Simone what a fabulous idea! Now I just need to figure out where to get one of those? Suggestions? That would be so much easier especially at work.

Wow that is amazing for your first fill! I am not an expert nor a doctor so I don't know if that is normal or not. I know mine have been in increments - I just had a fill today as well, I have a 10cc band and now have 5.5cc (.5cc added today). I am sure someone else will have a much better idea than I do, but regardless I got a chuckle about the soup - I spend more time reheating my food than eating some days!

Hello Amy and Cindy! I had a third fill today, I have a 10cc band and now have 5.5cc in it. Feeling good over all and getting good restriction. Now I just have to get up off of my tush and go get on the treadmill! I am trying to pysch myself up for it :smile:

Hello, Firstly I live in Vermont and very familiar with Norwich :tongue2: Secondly, I guess what did it for me was my Aunt and her daughter who had gastric bypass. My Aunt was really supportive and had watched me struggle with my weight continuously, she asked "when are going to do something about this?" That was it, the moment for me, I thought ok when am I going to do something? And here I am :thumbup:

I am sorry to hear about your pain and possible gallstones. I understand your pain however, I had to have a port revision November 19th for pain that sounded just like that for months. I couldn't get comfortable no matter what I did and I just fidgeted constantly trying to find a better way to sit, stand or sleep. I wish you luck and I hope they can get this resolved for you so you can feel great :tongue2: Barbie

Hello all, I had my lap band surgery done on June 16, 2008 and a port revision done November 19,2008. I started at 226 lbs and now weigh 195. The majority of the weight came off before the surgery during my two week liquid diet. I would like to hit 135 as a high goal weight, but at this point I am focusing on breaking through 190. I have refocused and started tracking my foods more carefully and really trying to be more accountable. I have my 4th fill this month on the 22nd - hopefully that will get me just right. Anyways, just wanted to share and introduce myself

Hi there :smile2: No I luckily didn't have to insist at all - They thought I had a hernia or a flipped port when I started complaining of the pain, so once they figured out it wasn't either of those things they almost seemed relieved and happy to find out it was just too large of a port. Mine sits below my right rib cage, I am a short person and that part of my body from ribs to hip bone is very short as well. Your port sounds really painful! I hope they get you taken care of and in good shape :laugh: