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Port pains and sex.
I get a twinge every now and then in that position (also a fav ) But, if it is more than twinge, I would ask the dr. If it makes you feel any better, I hve to ask my obgyn about this uncomdfortable pain in my lower abdomen during an O...woohoo! Rain
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Is anyone else experiencing body pains while losing weight??
Since starting to lose, I have felt various body aches that I am not used to feeling. I have an ache in my arm, and some residual leg pain... Is it normal to feel different aches and pains that you're not used to feeling??? Do you think this has something to do with less padding??? Thanks, Rain
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Need help... daughter 16 & 300lbs
It has got to be a terribly hard decision...my only thought (to play devil's advocate) is that in one of your posts you mentioned that you just told her about it a few days ago and a day later she wanted the surgery. As you are aware, it is a major surgery and not something to be jumped in to lightly. I'd like my child (and my husband, when he was banded complied with this as well) to research every avenue and aspect prior to jumping into a surgical decision. I don't think there are many of us on this board who decided overnight to be banded. Just my two cents...I wish you and your daughter much luck as you go through this process. Rain
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Has your sex life changed since getting the band?
Yes...considerable increase...I love it! What am I doing about it??? Poor dh...he's exhausted!!! Rain
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Best thing about being slim?
Oh there are so many things... 1. Crossing my legs like a woman instead of like a man 2. fitting into clothing in regular stores 3. not feeling like the big fat elephant in every social situation... So many more... Rain
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Weight Challenge - September to Thanksgiving 2007
Folks... Please try and copy the last post before changing your weight... It's so frustrating that it keeps getting confused. Thank you. Rain
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Weight Challenge - September to Thanksgiving 2007
Name............Chall. Start Wt........Current......Chall. Goal.............To Go alwayscurious........245......................245. ............212.................33 Amelia40...............270.................... 270................240................30 areellady...............232....................226 .5 ...............212.................14.5 argon..................162...................160.2 ...............142...............18.2 Ariel....................207.................... 199 ..............182..................17 aussie_jode...........212......................212 .............190..................22 BabygotBack..........164.....................164. ............145..................19 Babygrl1234...........215......................205 ............190.................15 Becky42................253.....................248 ...............220...............28 bekafina.................225.....................2 25.............199................26 Cherrybomb...........311....................306 ..............291................15 chickatee..............203.....................201 ..............175................26 chocolate_snaps......344....................342... ...........299................43 cQQlgirl..................225....................2 25................185..............40 Chris_NJ................284....................265 .................250..............15 cindyluhu...............194....................194 ...............180.............14 dacer123...............243....................243. ..............223................20 Denise...................170....................17 0...............155...............15 Denise..................244.....................24 4...............220................24 Desertbunnee.........232....................207. .............180................27 DonnaD................185.....................185. .............170................15 eclipse..................215.....................2 12..............199................16 faithmd................303.....................303 ............ 283...............16.7 glindab................ 277.....................269...............250..... .. .......19 gonnabfree............231....................231.. ..............205................26 Guinessgirl77.........241...................241 ..................210..............31 gweniper..............253.....................240. ...............223...............30 hf2havefun...........240......................240. ..............210................30 ihadenuf................216....................216 ................190................26 itsjustducky...........317....................317. .................297...............20 james2539............235.4.................235.4 ................220.............15.4 jfran……………………….212………………………204……………………..196………………8 jglong54...............206....................206. .................195.............11 jadrad7.................224....................224 .................200..............24 jazzystouch...........246......................246 ...............220...............26 Jeni 85.................237....................230 ..................207..............23 joisey....................307....................3 07................290...............17 josiebies...............188......................1 73................165................8 JulieNYC................155.....................14 9.................136..............13 Kaelin's G-Ma.........272....................272............. ......220.............52 KarenG................. 240.....................232...................225. ...........7 katalin.e................230.....................1 79.................150..............29 Kellymovingon........207......................207 .................187............20 Kimmie.................296.....................290 ..................270.............20 ladydi............. .....233.....................228.................2 08...............20 legster..................261....................25 1................235...............16 LeslieLee...............216.....................21 6................186...............30 LifeLover..............289.....................275 ..............259................16 lisa_in_toronto.......180......................180 ................160...............20 losingjusme...........273.....................272. ...............238................33 luvinke..................225.................. ..223..................195..............28 maddog.................230.....................230 ................205..............25 marcar35...............277.....................268 ................250............. 18 mcgreen...............236......................230 .................210..............26 METALBAND...........187.....................182... ..... .......167..............15 momlambert..........207...................204.5... ............185..............20.5 mpalen.................229.....................229 ................200................29 Peache8887...........330.....................306.. ...............275..............31 pmmegm..............248.....................248... ...............228..............20 Rainer..................298................... 275..................258................17 robgoblin87............279...................279.. ................250...............29 SC2VA..................233.....................233 ..................200..............33 sdakotaRN.............254.....................254. ................225..............29 Short C................. 166....................166.................146.. ............20 Soniacan...............198.5..................198. 5.............175.............23.5 Stacy73.................259.....................24 1...............230...............11 Sunny112..............215.....................157. ...............140...............17 Suzzzie. ...............349....................334......... .......320................14 sweethot143..........197....................188... ...........175.................13 tanderson..............231.....................231 ...............199................32 teacher.................236.....................23 6.............200................36 ToniaPatt …..........286……….....……......283………......... 243.… ........…40 UK-Lady...............255.....................223.... ...........210.................13 Wannabthin...........231......................222. .............211................20 want2beme...........225.....................225.. ............195................30 wen.....................288......................2 84..............255................29 Whosyadaddy.........388.....................369... ...........335................43 __________________
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A thread for super-sized bandsters - starting BMI over 50?
whosyadaddy... WWOOOO HOOO!!!! Congrats...I think you rock! Thanks for the PM...you're sweet. I'm doing well...Just had my first fill and I am losing again...11 lbs to go to reach my OCT goal...I have to do this....or die trying (well...maybe that's a little dramatic ) Glad you are still kicking butt!!! Rain
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Delayed PB?
This happened to my husband...ate dinner...chicken and broccoli...later on, he had a drink...and oops...there came the dinner...At least 1.5 hours later... Rain
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i am staying on plan today because ...
Because I'm feeling great and getting collarbones
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Weight Challenge - September to Thanksgiving 2007
Name...........Chall. Start Wt........Current......Chall. Goal...........To Go alwayscurious........245......................245. ............212.................33 Amelia40...............270.................... 270................240................30 areellady...............232....................226 ...............212.................14.5 argon..................162...................160.2 ...............142...............18.2 Ariel....................207.................... 199 ..............182..................17 aussie_jode...........212......................212 .............190..................22 BabygotBack..........164.....................164. ............145..................19 Babygrl1234...........215......................205 ............190.................15 Becky42................253.....................250 ...............220...............30 bekafina.................225.....................2 25.............199................26 Cherrybomb...........311....................306 ..............291................15 chickatee..............203.....................201 ..............175................26 chocolate_snaps......344....................342... ...........299................43 cQQlgirl..................225....................2 25................185..............40 Chris_NJ................284....................262 .................250..............12 cindyluhu...............194....................194 ...............180.............14 dacer123...............243....................243. ..............223................20 Denise...................170....................17 0...............155...............15 Denise..................244.....................24 4...............220................24 Desertbunnee.........232....................207. .............180................27 DonnaD................185.....................185. .............170................15 eclipse..................215.....................2 12..............199................16 faithmd................303.....................303 ............ 283...............16.7 glindab................ 277.....................269...............250..... .. .......19 gonnabfree............231....................231.. ..............205................26 Guinessgirl77.........241...................241 ..................210..............31 gweniper..............253.....................240. ...............223...............30 hf2havefun...........240......................240. ..............210................30 ihadenuf................216....................216 ................190................26 itsjustducky...........317....................317. .................297...............20 james2539............235.4.................235.4 ................220.............15.4 jfran……………………….212………………………204……………………..196………………8 jglong54...............206....................206. .................195.............11 jadrad7.................224....................224 .................200..............24 jazzystouch...........246......................246 ...............220...............26 Jeni 85.................237....................230 ..................207..............23 joisey....................307....................3 07................290...............17 josiebies...............188......................1 77................165...............12 JulieNYC................155.....................14 9.................136..............13 Kaelin's G-Ma.........272....................272............. ......220.............52 KarenG................. 240.....................232...................225. ...........7 katalin.e................230.....................1 79.................150..............29 Kellymovingon........207......................207 .................187............20 Kimmie.................296.....................290 ..................270.............20 ladydi............. .....233.....................228.................2 08...............20 legster..................261....................25 1................235...............16 LeslieLee...............216.....................21 6................186...............30 lisa_in_toronto.......180......................180 ................160...............20 losingjusme...........273.....................272. ...............238................33 luvinke..................225.................. ..223..................195..............28 maddog.................230.....................230 ................205..............25 marcar35...............277.....................268 ................250............. 18 mcgreen...............236......................230 .................210..............26 METALBAND...........187.....................182... ..... .......167..............15 momlambert..........207...................204.5... .............185..............20.5 mpalen.................229.....................229 ................200................29 Peache8887...........330.....................306.. ...............275..............31 pmmegm..............248.....................248... ...............228..............20 Rainer..................298................... 276..................258................18 robgoblin87............279...................279.. ................250...............29 SC2VA..................233.....................233 ..................200..............33 sdakotaRN.............254.....................254. ................225..............29 Short C................. 166....................166.................146.. ............20 Soniacan...............198.5..................198. 5.............175.............23.5 Stacy73.................259.....................24 1...............230...............11 Sunny112..............215.....................157. ...............140...............17 Suzzzie. ...............349....................334......... .......320................14 sweethot143..........197....................188... ...........175.................13 tanderson..............231.....................231 ...............199................32 teacher.................236.....................23 6.............200................36 ToniaPatt …..........286……….....……......283………......... 243.… ........…40 UK-Lady...............255.....................223.... ...........210.................13 Wannabthin...........231......................222. .............211................20 want2beme...........225.....................225.. ............195................30 wen.....................288......................2 84..............255................29 Whosyadaddy.........388.....................369... ...........335................43 LifeLover..............289.....................275 ..............259................16 I love my fill!!! Rain
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Weirdest(perhaps even cool??) feeling ever...
My younger sister would say...PG13...ewwwww... So, Sherilynn...has it happened to you??? Rain
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Weirdest(perhaps even cool??) feeling ever...
It's kind of funny having you post to me...you're sweet! Love you! Rain
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Weirdest(perhaps even cool??) feeling ever...
I was eating my lunch and I felt the tightness in the back of my throat..waited a little and then took a sip of Water...I could feel it just sitting there...actually intensified the pain a bit...not fun.. Well, anyway...I bent over to pick up one of the THOUSANDS of toys on the floor and the water rushed back into my throat and a little of it got into my mouth.. Ok...yes, that was gross...but it was also really kind of cool. Like an anatomy lesson. Has this happened to you??? Rain
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Amazing what you don't realize-NSV
That is wonderful!!! Collarbones are exciting...last night I was lying in bed and realized that my ribs stuck up higher than my tummy. WOOO HOOOO!!!! Of course, that's only when I'm lying down...but it's a vast improvement! Best of luck and continue to enjoy those NSVs. Rain
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Help!
I've been there, I understand and I did cry...it helped. Mushies will come fast than you know and you will be thrilled!!!! Best of luck... Rain
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Do you tell people you're banded?
I share it...mostly... There is a part of me that wants to see people I haven't seen for a while and have them be overwhelmed with my "hotness!!!" HAHA...but then I'd tell them!!! Rain
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This is a real test
Enjoy your vacation... It may be fun to finally have eyes that are bigger than your stomach...you know those people who never finish their meals...I've never been one...looks like fun!!!! Enjoy! Rain
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i am staying on plan today because ...
I'm staying on plan today because I want my husband to be proud of me. (well, he always is...but this is different) Rain
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Anyone read Carnie Wilson's book... or any good book suggestions?
I second Ali's book...My husband met her on Tuesday and said she is inspirational...I finished half of the book so far and have been rather impressed. Best of luck! Rain
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A thread for super-sized bandsters - starting BMI over 50?
Hello all, Thanks for the warm welcomes. I appreciate being accepted. I had my first fill today and look forward to getting even more weight off.... As for being 6ft...yes...it does have it's own set of issues...but, it's also helped me. Rather than seeing myself as fat, I've always thought of myself as tall...and it's pretty much the first thing I tell people if we are meeting for the first time...It's who I am...whereas my weight as never been who I am...just a symptom!!! :cool: Thank you again! Rain
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Quick first fill question...
Hi ladies, Thank you for your replies...I'm hoping for a bit of a difference tomorrow... Alexandra, how did you enjoy Tuesday night? Pat had a great time (it's so his thing to do something like that!...I would have died!!!) He did have a good time and enjoyed meeting Ali's daughter...and spending time with you and the other folks from Abkin's office. He said that your discussion re: your rebanding was quite interesting. Also, how are you doing with your new job? Many congrats and hopes that it is fulfilling you. All my best, Lorraine
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Stress and the band - yikes!
Yes!!! On particularly frustrating days with my kids...I notice a lot of restriction...it's so annoying because I normally feed myself when upset and then even that isn't working for me...which, I suppose, is a good thing since I shouldn't be stress eating... Lorraine
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Hot Port
I experience this as well. Not often, in fact my husband seems to have it happen more than I, but often enough. Most of the time it is if I am sitting and my pants waist hits my port...but I've also noticed it bending down to pick up my kids... I think it is relatively normal! Rain
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6 or more months out and struggling ??? come on in (inspiration also needed)
Hello ladies, I don't fit into this thread as I have just had my first fill today...but I would like my husband to come here and join you. He's been banded for 6 months and has been playing with the same 10 pounds for two months or so. He's frustrated with the food he's eating and frustrated by his weight loss (72lbs as of today...) While 72 seems great, he can't get past the number looming in the distance...basically, another 100 pounds. He also set huge goals for himself and is so upset that he is not hitting them. So, I'm going to wish you all luck and hope for you that you find your support on this thread...and I am going to email this to dh (Squale)...as I think it is important to find your niche on the boards....and this may be it! Thanks and good luck. Rain