For those, like me, that have not been banded yet and may be having second thoughts, let me tell you what has given me a shot of motivation.

I went to a fashion show/celebration hosted by the surgical clinic that is doing my banding. It was a gala event and the models were patients that had lost weight with the band. OMG, they were awesome! Many had lost over 100 pounds and the before and after results were amazing! I had a chance to talk with many of the folks, both male and female, and asked them a lot of questions regarding the surgery and expressed some of my fears. They all (repeat, all) stated that they would do it again and that the worst part of the whole process was the unknown, not the surgery! They stated that although it was not totally pleasant, it was not nearly as bad as they THOUGHT it would be. Sitting at the table with me were 2 ladies who had undergone the procedure in July and had already lost over 40 pounds each. They filled me in on much of what is discussed on this board repeatedly - so it was like speaking with someone I already knew. At that moment, I knew for sure that this is what I want to do. No more anxiety or second guessing - I am being banded on Wednesday, 23 September, and I am ready. Let my new life begin and next year, I will be walking across the stage in a stunning outfit, slimmer and healthier!

To all those who have yet to be banded - Be Strong! Be Ready! And be positive in your choice!

Elgrad

That's wonderful, elgrad. I know going to support group meetings prior to my surgery helped me get over the jitters too. Talking face to face with others who were already banded, and some for several years, was such an inspiration.

Best wishes for a successful surgery followed by a quick recovery.

Elgrad, thanks for posting this.

I wish you a TON of luck on Wednesday!!

Thanks to both of you. I am so ready!

Elgrad

That was pretty helpful to me-I'm being banded on Thursday 09/24. The unknown is exactly what I'm afraid of. I have had multiple surgeries before and know my pain tolerance. i'm worried about how successful I will be. I guess at this point, there is nothing to it, but to do it! Good luck Wednesday. Lets touch base periodically to exchange tips and progress.:biggrin: