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Hello Suzi,

I just had surgery on July22,2009 and honey it's the best damn thing I have ever done!! And I have done it all. The surgery itself was a piece of cake and the care after was outstanding. I had no problem sticking to the puree diet the first few weeks. YOU REALLY ARE NOT HUNGRY!! You get full easy and then you get to improve what you eat as you go. I got a great book that was "a lot" of help to me and still is. It is called Weight Loss Surgery with Adjustable Gastric Band By: Robert W. Sewell, MD and Linda Rohrbough.

I ate a lot of baby food fruits and also the INJURY Protein Shakes. Very good. What I did was started getting all the stuff I would need for home weeks before. The Injury company I got everything I needed on line. Please don't be scared and stopped your self from a healthier you. It is what I decided to do and I'm very glad I did. I so far have lost 21lbs. It wasn't hard at all. If you need to ask any other questions feel free. I hope I can help. I would encourage you to go to all the support groups you can as well. I am now at my six weeks and I am able to eat pretty normal just in smaller amounts. My main two big things were mashed potatoes and Peanut Butter. I am glad to say I have been enjoying both. What I do for home is buy like Bob Evans mashed and just measure them out. One good tip is the 2nd foods Gerber container is great for that use. You can reuse them and they are only 3oz big so it makes things easier. But believe me if you eat more then say 7oz at this point you feel to full and wish you had ate less. Hope this helps.

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I had no problem sticking to the puree diet the first few weeks. YOU REALLY ARE NOT HUNGRY!!

Just wanted to say you actually may be hungry post op. Some people aren't because they either are swollen from surgery (lucky dogs!) or their surgeons put fill in during surgery. For many others, the hunger is THERE and if you don't realize it can be, you may be dismayed. Until the band is filled, for many (not all, but many) of us, it doesn't do much.

ALSO...during the first few weeks I was on liquids, not purees. You'll have a diet to follow from your surgeon, and it may be more lax, or may be more austere like mine was. Whichever, though, healing is finite. Six weeks or so and you'll be getting a fill and moving on. The post op diet isn't easy but it beats a life of being fat.

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I was soooo hungry post-op. Not right away, but a couple days later. I mean, my pre-op diet was pretty darn restrictive and I think my body was just desperate for food. My doc told me I could have oyster crackers as long as I let them dissolve before swallowing. Thank goodness for that. LOL I had a lot of oyster crackers that week.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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