What is it with all these women invading the mens room? They take over the entire rest of the forum with their over-analyzing, over-planning, over-organizing, over-reporting, and silly frilly ticker tapes and then they still are not satisfied and try to take this section over also.

I would offer 2 avenues of thought.

Firstly, Some men find large woman attractive, Maybe your husband is one of them.

The second is Depression.

There are many different levels of depression but they are all treatable, and serious.

I would talk to a therapist ASAP. by yourself if necessary. With the therapists help you can get him to join you.

I flirted on the edge with depression for a couple years and the fatigue excuse is a common one.