I was banded in 3/08, I thought this would surgery was the answer and save me from myself. Well it hasn't (of course.) I last a total of 21 lbs., and have gained back 11! I am so unhappy! I am depressed and feel like another thing, of the millions I have tried hasn't worked. I know its my own fault, I eat around the band, and I eat way too much. I have had 5 fills and I can still eat bread. My Dr. tells me I do not have a leak, but I don't feel like I think I should, or is this how it feels? In any case I would love to find someone who can support me as I support them, who has been there and can commiserate, or kick me in the butt when I need it. And I will do the same. I prefer a female. Thank you, and hope to talk to you soon!http://www.lapbandtalk.com/images/smilies/modern/crying.gif

hello

take care of the food you eat.. eat healthy and low calories items.and stay away from unhealthy high calories food ... really dangerours .. and change your brain before you changed u stomach ... think about it in a positive way ..

and love your band and you body ...

wish you all the best.. dont be upset and find something that is enjoyble for you and do it ...

i got these feelings sometimes .. but i tried my best to fight and forget about the food ... :w00t: