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:bored: I feel lost my starting weight was 252lb I was banded 5/5/08 and as of 1/28/09 I am 178ish I feel so suck I was so good the first 6 months I don't know if it was the holidays or stress but I feel like I am alway eating I have gain about 4 lbs in about 2 weeks. I am alone not many poeple know I have a band and poeple who do think is so easy but atleast for me it is not at this point. I want to be thin will it ever happen. I don't feel like I lost enough or as much as I should why am I gaining weight?? I hope things change I don't be like I used to be. Please tell me I am normal well I will never be normal but atleast on track. Help Elise

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Hello Esantos628:

Well, how can you be alone when you have so many people on this forum to support you?

Do you need a fill?

How are you doing with your exercise?

Are you seeing your doctor for aftercare?

How is your Protein intake?

And do you really know how much food/calories you are consuming in a day?

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sorry but i don't see why you are so frustrated. look how far you have come. also, since this is your first post, have you been looking here online for help and support. Maybe you just need a fill. Good Luck.

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OMG, you are doing sooo well! That's a lot of weight lost. I was banded 7/23/08 and have only loss 41 lbs. However, I will NOT give up because I'm losing not gaining.

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Congratulations on your incredible weight loss, you and I are very similar as far as our surgery dates, I was banded in June. However, I am much further behind in the weight loss department and I am not sharing that these days - I get tired of having people say "that is all you have lost?" - so that being said, you have done wonderful...

but you are entitled to feel frustrated, maybe you need a fill? maybe you need to refocus? I do not know but I can tell you that you will find wonderful support on this site as well as a ton of people who do understand.

Barbie

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Wow I think your doing great.Maybe you need a fill.When was your last one? Also maybe you can attend a support group in your area for bariatric patients.Keep up the great work.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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