Why do women have anal sex?

[DivaStyleCoach 89]

my problem with the earlier statement is that when people attribute something to a certain sub-section of the population...like implying that gay mean historically stick rodents up their ass...well, that borders on bigotry. Exspecially when paired with a statement that men you are open enough to explore their pleasure zones might also be gay.

I'm with you on this one, Makulafamy - there are extremes in behavior all across the board, and to imply that because one sub-section of a population does something implies that the entire population is doing it is definately bigoted.

There are things that "normal" adult men and women do all the time which are, to my mind, extreme and I would never do. That does not mean I am going to 'tar' everyone with the same brush...

[Fanny Adams 7]

WOW but I have missed the PowderRoom!! Loving this thread!! :thumbup:

I have to put my vote in with the "Do it because I love it" group and it's such fun to see that group is winning, in spite of how many women have said they wouldn't be in it. It's not something we do every time (probably about 1 in 5 encounters) but I LOVE it when the mood is right! As everyone says, you have to take it slow and work your way up there, else it will hurt like hell, but when done right, it's mind-blowing.

Oh, and Gloucester? Try again with the man, even if he is pretty well-endowed. I have to admit, I gulped in fear when I thought of trying that with my current man because he is VERY well endowed and I hadn't tried with anyone that big before. However, it just takes a little more patience and lot more working up to it, but the end result is SO worth it! *quivers*

[plain 12]

WOW but I have missed the PowderRoom!! Loving this thread!! :eek:

I have to put my vote in with the "Do it because I love it" group :crying: and it's such fun to see that group is winning, in spite of how many women have said they wouldn't be in it. It's not something we do every time (probably about 1 in 5 encounters) but I LOVE it when the mood is right! As everyone says, you have to take it slow and work your way up there, else it will hurt like hell, but when done right, it's mind-blowing.

Oh, and Gloucester? Try again with the man, even if he is pretty well-endowed. I have to admit, I gulped in fear when I thought of trying that with my current man because he is VERY well endowed and I hadn't tried with anyone that big before. However, it just takes a little more patience and lot more working up to it, but the end result is SO worth it! *quivers*

I think I'm in love. :biggrin:

[Andrew6 0]

I think I'm in love. :crying:

no joke, me too lol

[Fanny Adams 7]

Well I know I am!!! But with my partner of course, so nyahh! :crying::eek:

[plain 12]

Thanks for raining on my and Andrew's parade, Fanny!! lol.

[Fanny Adams 7]

Any time, Plain!! You know me - Always happy to oblige! :crying:

[Oregondaisy 2,020]

it still amazes me that this can be a pleasant experience. It's mind boggling to me!

[gamyj 0]

ok this was the best tread I have ever read!! It was very educational. I myself have to pass on the anal sex. I don't think i can even wrap my brain around it. My husband is very well endowed and i was afraid to have regular sex with him when i saw it... so to have that in my rear... OH DEAR... HELL NO! I don't have anything against it, but it's just too scary a thought for me.

More power to you gals who love it!!

amy

[Fanny Adams 7]

If you really want to find out why, here's a quick primer on how to get started:

1. Pick a night when you're feeling relaxed and in the mood to be daring... a few drinks do help at the beginning to get you over some inhibitions and relax a few muscles. Try not to focus on it being "dirty" or "naughty" (unless of course those ideas turn you on - as they do for some of us *winks*.)

2. Wait until you're already good and horny and halfway worked up through other means - this is not something to try without lots of foreplay!

3. Find your favourite lube - mine is 100% organic coconut oil - not too slippery (like baby oil), doesn't go all sticky after a while (like astroglide) and smells and tastes wonderful (unlike all the others!)

4. Get your man to gently and slowly run his finger around the outside rim of your anus, massaging the muscle ring firmly but sensuously. Tell him NOT to attempt penetration until you give the signals! This should go on for at least several minutes before anything further and may actually be all you want to start off with, especially if he's dextrous enough to manage a thumb in the vagina at the same time (OH BABY!!)

5. If you're enjoying that and want more, signal by pushing against his hand. When you are "ready", his finger should just dip in easily and YOU control the pace and depth of entry.

If that works for you, and you want to take it further, I'm sure you'll figure the rest of it out *grins* The aim is for him to use his hands to slowly SLOWLY relax that muscle until you're ready to try the next step...

[Fanny Adams 7]

Damnit! I'm at work at the moment (11:35am) and this is SO not what I need to help me concentrate for the afternoon!! I don't fly home till 9pm tonight, so it will be another 13 hours until I see my honey! I wanna go home NOW!!!

[Gone4Now 4]

it still amazes me that this can be a pleasant experience. It's mind boggling to me!

Have you tried it yet, or will you? I recommend it!

Fanny, thanks - We may try again another day. I already told him I want a certain toy for my b-day, so maybe that will be enough for now. I do miss it. :crying:

[Oregondaisy 2,020]

No, I seriously doubt that I will try it since my bf does not want to. I don't plan to be with anyone else. We have a great sex life just the way it is. Things become more difficult as we get into our 50's and I am happy we can have sex at all, since my last bf needed viagra and could not afford it.

[NurseMelly 0]

I guess I'm a weird one because I just don't like it. To me, it feels like I have to take a crap and I cannot get past that sensation. I guess for everyone it's different. I'm still a down girl though so my dh has no room to complain. We have sex 4-5 times a week and I'm the bj queen. No anal sex here. No apologies :smile:

[Andrew6 0]

this is a dirty dirty chat... i feel weird for liking it.