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I did not expect to feel so emotional but obviously buying things in the plus size department affected me more than I thought. I used to pretend to have fun shopping with my friends, picking out cute clothes for them. I found my solace in shoes. Lots of shoes!!! :unsure:

I continue to be impressed and inspired by all the success stories people share on LBT. It is not a quick fix but it really does work.

And kareng...holy cow a size 6. That is truly fabulous and you are a rock star. Size 6!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hello there!

I was wondering. Have you been banded yet? If so, how long before you returned to work? Are you an RN? I am working in the ICU and so far I've only requested 1 week off of work because I do not know exactly how much time I will need. let me know what your experience is?

dolphin:wink_smile:

Hi dolphin,

I was banded on November 7th. I'm a clinical manager in a pediatric ER that has a level one trauma center, and I'm taking my full three weeks to recover. If I had a desk job and knew for certain that I wouldn't have to quickly lift, wrangle a psychiatric patient, or do CPR, I would go back sooner. I don't want to take the chance of messing up my surgery, and I have the time to take off, so I'm just enjoying recuperating and becoming acquainted with my band. Plus, I won't be drinking only liquids when I return and won't raise any questions at lunchtime eating yogurt or cottage cheese. I didn't tell many people at work I was having this surgery, so being at that stage of foods when I return won't readily give me away.

When is your surgery? If you have a date, I'm sure you're excited!

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I did not expect to feel so emotional but obviously buying things in the plus size department affected me more than I thought. I used to pretend to have fun shopping with my friends, picking out cute clothes for them. I found my solace in shoes. Lots of shoes!!! :mad:

I continue to be impressed and inspired by all the success stories people share on LBT. It is not a quick fix but it really does work.

And kareng...holy cow a size 6. That is truly fabulous and you are a rock star. Size 6!!!!!!!!!!!

:)

I never enjoy shopping for clothes. It's all about necessity. :thumbup:

My mom never could understand that until she gained weight in her late 50's (had always been trim until then). Then she "got" it. Welcome to my world... :frown:

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I cannot wait for the day when I am back down below 200. My surgery is on Tuesday, November 11 and reading your post gives me hope!!!:)

I hope everything went well with your surgery and you're well on your way to recovery.

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I went to the outlets with my mom this past weekend. The Vanity Fair store had Riders jeans for $6 a pair. So I figured I'd grab some that were smaller and work my way into them for that price. So, I grabbed a size 20. (I am still wearing anything from 24-26 and a lucky pair of 22's from Catherines). So, I went to the fitting room to try to see if they'd go on somewhat well enough for me to tell if they were going to work, height and all... Well, I was floored when they buttoned and zipped! I had tears rolling down my cheeks. I haven't seen a 20 in over 10 years! Now, I know sizes vary... blah blah blah... but for me, less than 2 weeks post-op, it was so very encouraging!! I can't wait to be able to shop anywhere I want!

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I am at as of yesterday 199 lbs. and believe me I was tearing up. It feels so good to accomplish this small goal on my way to the big goal. Keep it up girl and I will see you in the regular size department soon....

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Congrats Stacy!

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My teary moment was when 2 nights ago my son fell asleep in my bed. After my shower in order to avoid waking him by going in my room to get a change of clothing I remembered that last winter I had stored all my sweats in the guest room closet. I pulled out the pants I wore to the hospital the day of my surgery, Dec. 31, 2007 and when I put them on they literally fell down. My husband and older kids could not stop laughing when I came downstairs. Even though I knew I had lost a lot of weight I think what hit me was realizing how big I had been. I started out at 231 pounds and am now down to 129 pounds.

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Wow, I actually teared up just reading this! Every one of you are such an inspiration to me! I have not got my Band yet, but I'm getting it VERY soon and I absolutely cannot wait now!!! You have all done so great and I Thank You for sharing all of your inspiring stories with us. It makes me feel that I can do this, Cuz im gonna be honest, im scared to death!!! But you ladies have inspired me so much!! Thank You!!! =)

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imb, WOW! I'm so thrilled for you and it's stories like yours that keep me inspired when I get frustrated. Thanks for sharing.

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I do understand!!! I do!!! I am still working on my mind catching up with my weight. My hubby doesn't get it either, when I have tried to express my insanity I have teared up talking about the weight I have lost and bless his heart.....well, we know the rest

Congrats!!!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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