This is my first post ever, I've been a lurker.

I'm feeling like I haven't made the best use of my band. I was banded May 2006 and have, in general, been successful. I've lost 85 lbs. The problem is this, I'm a horrible eater. I guess in the last 2 and a half years I've figured out that ice cream never gets stuck, therefore I eat ice cream almost daily. I use the excuse that I can't eat much of anything else. That's a lie, of course. I've become lactose intolerant since banding... so the ice cream kinda comes right back out... I think thats the only reason I haven't gained the weight back. Help! I want to get back on track!!!

Currently, I weigh 193. My goal is 150. I want someone to be accountable to and vice versa. Even though I'm struggling with my eating habits or really, its a eating disorder, I think I can be supportive of other banders too. My eating is emotionally based, I need to remember that and stop reaching for the ice cream instead of dealing with my anger, fear, depression, etc.

A little about me, I'm 39... almost 40, ugh. I live in South Saint Paul, MN. I work fulltime in adult mental health. Also, I'm currently attending college to get my Master's degree in Social Work. I have 3 daughters, twins that are 18... their out living on their own and my youngest is 5, she just started Kindergarten. I'm married and we enjoy boating, camping, etc.

Well hi im Sherry i was banded march 26th 2008 and weight lose for me is slow and steady. I average about 10 pds or so a month, it would be nice to have a buddy so we can help each other and follow each others progress. Im from Iowa and close to 40 as well i havent been coming on here too much lately, but if you want to consider me as a friend let me know i will be their for you! Good luck is your journey and if you have a yahoo account feel free 2 add me what_about_love319 hope to talk to you soon.

Hi Sherry,

Thanks for the message. Of course, I would like to have you as a buddy. How are you doing with the band? Losing 10 lbs a month seems like it is going great.

I have reached a plateau, well, I've been about the same weight for the last year. I just had a fill about a month ago but not a lot of change other then more heartburn. I think more heartburn may mean its a little tight. I have to go back in and have it checked out.

Hope to talk with you soon!