Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

I am almost 9 weeks post-op and have not yet had my first fill! The doctor who did my surgery moved out of state. The new doctor who came to take his place has not yet received his license to practice in our state and I have had 2 appointments cancelled already.

I had lost 27 pounds before my first-fill appointment, but now I am hungry all the time and have gained 2 pounds back. I don't know what to do! Does anyone have any ideas or words of encouragement? I am extremely frustrated!!!!!:)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Do you live near a Fill Center USA?

There may also be other docs in your area who take orphaned lap band patients. It's hard to give more specific advise without knowing where you live.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My surgery date is Tuesday, Aug. 12. I am nervous, which I know is normal. It seems like all I've been reading lately is disappointments, negative issues, etc. I would like to find a place where I can read up on the patients who have had their Lapbands and are expressing the positives. In other words, is the Band really the wonderful thing it is supposed to be? Please guide me to those types of good responses. Thanks.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I can tell you a positive story! I was banded on July 10 and it's been a wonderful experience. The sugery was easy, recovery was easy (some bad gas pains, but nothing unbearable) and I've survived a death in the family and vacation without doing my usual....blowing a diet because I just couldn't stick with it under those circumstances. I did gain 3 pounds on vacation because it was week three after surgery, before a fill and I could eat about anything I wanted. Eventhough it was smaller portions, I was eating foods high in calories. Thank goodness I lost it quickly once back home. I had my first fill last Thursday and have lost 3 more pounds. I have read that a lot of people don't feel much difference after their first fill, but I sure can. I'm not able to eat near what I could before the fill.

For all of you about to have surgery....be excited! I kind of think it is what you make it! My doctor warned me that if you just start eating like you did before, only in smaller portions, you won't lose much (why the majority of people only lose 40% of thier excess weight). I use a site called The Daily Plate to count my calories and I'm exercising every day. I do Water aerobics twice a week and walk 30 minutes on my treadmill every day that I'm not swimming. Like my doctor told me in the beginning...this is NOT a quick fix. You still have to eat healthy, low calorie foods and exercise to lose weight.

sugar free popsicles are my lifesaver! My doctor said no snacking between meals, but popsicles count as liquid so aren't considered snacking. I eat two or three a day.

Best of luck to you all.....I hope your surgery goes well.

Edited by tmcd59

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I know this has to be frustrating....I had to wait for two months to get my fill because my port incision refused to heal...hang in there I did finally get mine and now think I need more...I feel very restricted in the a.m. but by p.m. can eat most anything and I hate that.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hi,

It should be much easier getting a fill Dr. when surgery was done here in the states. Mexico is another story, they are much more pickyyyyyyyy!:lol:

Check some of the Barix clinics in your area. The Dr. I use works for Barix and he is great. Also less expensive that Fill Centers of America. I would think most lap band Dr. would take you on since you have had American surgery done. Just pick up the phone and keep dialing till someone says yes. It wont we as hard as you think it will. These guys want to make money and we are the income stream.:thumbup:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KimBaxleyWilson

      Three months and four days ago... I was in Costa Rica having a life changing surgery! Yesterday we had a followup visit with Dr. Esmeral via video chat and this morning my middle number changed.  I'm down 47lbs and two pants sizes. I can wear a Large tshirt for the first time in like... 14 years! Woot!! Everything is going great. I have zero regrets. I went down to the riverwalk with a friend and walked 2 miles on Monday without even getting fatigued. And no more snoring or chugging pickle juice for crazy leg cramps! I need to go to the gym more... I'm making new shirts next week so that will motivate me. LOL But I'm also just not as TIRED all the time! I have a LONG way to go...but seeing the progress on the scales and in the mirror is a huge motivator!! Thank you all for cheering me on and supporting me!!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • bellaamey

      https://alluniqueguide.com/java-burn-coffee-reviews/
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×