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Ok, so I have this crazy goal, that when I get to my goal weight, I want to go to India and climb to Upper Dharamsala and hang with the Dhali Lama. I just do. I'm not Buddhist. I just think it would kick ass! :eek:

Also, I want to mess with the heads of men....but thats my meaner goal! Hahah....kidding :).

I do want to wear a bikini, though....but probably not in Dharamsala.

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Thats an awesome goal!!!! I need to start thinking of some good goals. I have a couple lame ones, nothing that really compares to that lol... When I hit my goal weight, I want to get more of a tattoo I have on my back worked on, I've always wanted to add to it, but I can't. Its takes up most of my lower back and some of my upper toosh lol, I want to add more going up my back, but I have these big ol' rolls in the way! lol. I also would love to wear a bikini in public. The day I look good in a bikini (and that day will come, at any cost lol) I'm only wearing bikinis from now on. Should get some interesting looks hahaha.

Oh and the messing with mens heads? Hahaha I already got started on that! Hopefully I will just have more options hahaha.

Juuust kidding :eek: I'm a nice girl tehehe

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B I K I N I !!!! lol thats kinda my biggest goal right now....bikini and then go somewhere fabulous and hot like hawaii or on a cruz! or maybe alstraila! :thumbup: Or maybe New York to go on a giant shoping spree! who knows, but I'll have to do somthing good!

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ok i thought about it some more...and what I really really really want to do once i'm at goal is a photo shoot! i think it would be so much fun once i have my confidence back and once i'm happy with my body to do a fun photo shoot!! then i'll always have those pics to remind me of my hard work too!

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I have ALWAYS wanted to do a sexy photo shoot. My ultimate fansatsy-I can't believe I am even saying this right now- is to be able to have a shoot where I am in a bed with only white sheets. I'd be nude but have twisted sheets covering me stratigecally and big hair. You know, something super sexy without showing it all just for the hubby.

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I want to walk around in just swim trunks or shorts. Like down in South Padre (not too far from me). From store to store with no shirt on. Don't ask me why. Haha

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Haha that seems to be a big goal for all of us, scantily clad outfits on the beach hehe. When were all skinny we'll meet up for a sexy beach party hahaha, even though looking at all of our cities I don't think we could all be more spread out from each other lol

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hahaha very good point Allison. We are all so far apart.

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i'm gonna get some knee high boots. don't know why but always wanted them. and i want to sky dive. bikini would be nice. oh and i want to run into the guys that have rejected me because of my size and then kick some dirt at them with my boots.:tongue2:

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I want to go horseback riding.

I want to go scuba-diving.

I want to wear a really cute outfit and go shopping on Newbury Street in Boston.

I want to go on vacation to someplace far away, where noone knows me, and not be reminded of all the years I've wasted being overweight.

I want to start LIVING!

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i'm gonna get some knee high boots. don't know why but always wanted them. and i want to sky dive. bikini would be nice. oh and i want to run into the guys that have rejected me because of my size and then kick some dirt at them with my boots.:P

LOL, those boots were made for walking! Bringing pride to the song! My goals are:

1. Buy from Victoria Secrets

2. Skimpy clothes in the summer

3. Perfect health

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I want to go horseback riding.

I want to go scuba-diving.

I want to wear a really cute outfit and go shopping on Newbury Street in Boston.

I want to go on vacation to someplace far away, where noone knows me, and not be reminded of all the years I've wasted being overweight.

I want to start LIVING!

I totally agree!

I also want to add sky diving

white Water rafting

kayaking

rock climbing

go to the local pool

a bikini would be nice, but I just want to be comfortable in any suit

and just doing everything I never could before or was too embarrassed to do!

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Well... I'm planning to get more in-depth kama sutra practice with the hubby. There are some positions that just aren't the same at 300 lb. A mini goal of mine is to go to Six Flags next summer and not worry about whether or not the bar will go down over my lap or breasts.

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I wanna be able to go to Six Flags and Sea World as well as Schlitterbahn and ride ALL the rides! It's gonna be an exhausting year next year :thumbs_up:

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