the doctor Im seeing now offers both the lapband and the realize band. He doesn't really have an opinion on which is better. Where can i get some info or can you share with me how you decided? Thanks

I have Realize (2 months), DH has LapBand (2 years). We are both doing well. Realize has some online support, which I admit, I don't use, but can be useful to those who do. My Dr. offered both too. I liked the way my port is anchored and the lower profile. But it's just a tool. They both work very well if we do what we are supposed to do. Don't stress out about the decision. If you don't want to decide, tell your surgeon and he can decide for you.

Wish you well and much success!

Edited to add: Your surgeon should be able to give you literature on both bands. Both companies also have websites.