Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

New 60+ Thread



Recommended Posts

Congratulations - you'll be banded before you know it. Then the journey to health begins.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

OK, I've been to see the surgeon, been to see the Nurse Practitioner, have read the Sewell book on Lap Band, and have hung around the forums for awhile. I"m looking at surgery in late May, early June 2010. I'm a busy guy during the long days I work (68 and still going strong) and I would like to ask this: How much is this band going to interfere with my daily chores? I mean, is it like a constant problem you're dealing with as far as overeating, vomiting, PBing etc., or does it eventually become a part of your everyday life that pretty much goes along without a lot of attention?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

OK, I've been to see the surgeon, been to see the Nurse Practitioner, have read the Sewell book on LAP-BAND®, and have hung around the forums for awhile. I"m looking at surgery in late May, early June 2010. I'm a busy guy during the long days I work (68 and still going strong) and I would like to ask this: How much is this band going to interfere with my daily chores? I mean, is it like a constant problem you're dealing with as far as overeating, vomiting, PBing etc., or does it eventually become a part of your everyday life that pretty much goes along without a lot of attention?

No, the band will not interfere with your daily living. It will become part of it. You will make your decisions and food choices based on what you can and can not tolerate. Just don't try to eat something "new" when you're out and about. Introduce foods at home. You may get some benefit reading about my journey at my blog- perhaps information about how the process went for me will help you "settle in". You can find it at Sandi's Banded Living — My Lapband Weight Loss Success Story

I was working from home 4 days after surgery and back int he office at a week. Ninety five percent of the time I have no problem with eating foods..The other 5% of the time it is usually my fault for not chewing horoughly, taking too big a bite, or "trying" to eat a food that I know doesn't work for me any more.

Let me know what you think!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow! good ,positive news!!! You have done so well.I hope to be able to say these words one day!!!L.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

NewGuinea, Welcome to the best of the rest of your life!! Sandi has it right on!!

Your band and you will form a partnership as you proceed on your journey to a wonderful future!! It has it's ups and downs, but every aspect of life has that!:)

Your future is going to be rich, rewarding and fabulous!!:thumbup:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well if you are like me you have decided that you have made the best decision you can make and now go with the flow .And yes it pretty well is just getting on with your life but feeling full a lot earlier than before when eating ,and with a bit of luck not feeling very hungry very often. After reading all the bad things that can happen and problems people have had, it is really great that I feel so normal . You can eat all the worng things you know, like ice creams and chocolate and othe fattening stuff. The band lets them through very easily so don't be fooled that you won't have to be a good student of the right foods and a sensible eater . I was 69 when I got mine done and the first few months were a bit difficult . I kept thinking I didn't need to stay on the mushy diet and broke the rules and had to regurgitate but since that stage has passed everything feels normal and I slowly lose weight.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On TV tonight, the news revealed a study that shows high fat or sugary foods trigger the same areas of the brain that cocaine, heroin and other illiegal drugs do. The study does not know why some people become addicted to high fat/sugary foods as yet.

At last proof, scienceis now coming out what a lot of us have known for a lifetime. We are addicted to certain foods and eating them makes us want more.

Thank goodness for my band as I am one that is addicted to high fat foods and to restrain myself is so much easier.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Doddie63 - I saw that research study info on TV today too. food addiction is ugly and the band is here to help us.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Doddie63 - I saw that research study info on TV today too. food addiction is ugly and the band is here to help us.

After a lifetime of being told it is all my fault and I just have to exercise and the weight will come off. I feel such a relief to know that it is not all my fault. That I have an addiction. Easier to fight when you know what to fight. That my body is in fact fighting me every step of the way. Mybe now my GP will stop being like a broken record and start being a bit more constructive.

After 67 years of being obese, I am thankful that the younger children prone to being fat will have a fighting chance and not have their self esteem destroyed by the "only have to exercise crowd".

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just want to wish everyone that celebrates the Christian holidays a :thumbup:. Remember.... Eat to Live - not- Live to Eat.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just popping in to say Happy Easter.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On Monday I have my upper GI and abdominal ultrasound. I'm a little nervous, but ready to get it over with. Hope you all are having a great weekend.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Good luck - hope all is well.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On Monday I have my upper GI and abdominal ultrasound. I'm a little nervous, but ready to get it over with. Hope you all are having a great weekend.

Hi and welcome to the SIXTIES forum...:confused:

Just wanted to wish you luck with your Journey and say Hi !!

Having a great weekend downunder ..wishing the same to you and all the Sixties Banders here....:thumbup:

Marion aka Majj

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks for the kind words.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×