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My butt has been reduced to just my pelvic bone, really. Flat as a pancake, deflated, bony butt. I look forward to plastics. That's all.

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Yeah, mine too. And my boobs have vanished. I used to say I'm shaped like a plank with tits, but now I'm just the plank. 🤡

I can wear the hell out of a suit, though. Tailored clothes love me. Bikinis... yeah not so much!

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Bony butt pain is real. I would love to say to eventually stops but I can’t. It isn’t as bad but if I’m sitting for any length of time I feel it again. I have no butt at all (except what has crept down the back of my thighs. Never have to ask if my butt looks big in this. Lol! I chuckle every time I see this pxt - which is my front & which is my back.

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I swear we're negative-space butt-twins, Arabesque!

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I was sitting on my concrete patio, putting together some patio furniture. The next morning my butt was really, really sore and I couldn’t figure out why. Then it hit me, BONY BUTT!

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Same same. No curve back there whatsoever. Have to always use a pillow to sit on or it hurts to stand up after sitting down.

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Absolutely this. Nothing sticking out the back of even skinny jeans. Bring it on!

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Just leaving this here for you:

bony knees!

omg I haven’t even lost a full 30lbs yet and I struggle to get comfy in bed because my knees knock together. Goodness what will happen with my butt goes too?? 😭

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6 hours ago, mcipanda said:

Just leaving this here for you:

bony knees!

omg I haven’t even lost a full 30lbs yet and I struggle to get comfy in bed because my knees knock together. Goodness what will happen with my butt goes too?? 😭

Me, me, me. I have to put a pillow between my knees now, I hate the bone on bone feeling. Jeez what a wonderful problem to have.

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On 5/26/2023 at 4:47 AM, Arabesque said:

Bony butt pain is real. I would love to say to eventually stops but I can’t. It isn’t as bad but if I’m sitting for any length of time I feel it again. I have no butt at all (except what has crept down the back of my thighs. Never have to ask if my butt looks big in this. Lol! I chuckle every time I see this pxt - which is my front & which is my back.

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I will take this any day because I had a butt shelf. You can not hide one of those

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22 hours ago, mcipanda said:

Just leaving this here for you:

bony knees!

omg I haven’t even lost a full 30lbs yet and I struggle to get comfy in bed because my knees knock together. Goodness what will happen with my butt goes too?? 😭

Knees, shoulders, ankles, elbows, wrists. I had bony aches with them all. I still wake every couple of hours because of shoulder &/or knee discomfort & have to rollover & reposition myself.. The strangest was my wrists. OMG so much pain using a mouse at work.

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I often wonder how different I feel to my partner. He had decades of cuddling a chubby-to-obese partner in bed, to now cuddling what I can only imagine feels a bit like a human-shaped collection of broomsticks.

I mean he was on the gradual journey with me, so it's not an overnight change, but still. Gotta be wild!

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