Help my mother with doesn't support me have weight loss weight

[Blacc.Beautiiee 4]

Help my mother with doesn't support me have weight loss surgery, she keeps saying it is the easy way out or if I lose weight I will just gain all back, she does not understand weight over 600 pounds is very hard for me to live life.

At the end of the day you have to do what's best for YOU! Family not always gone be around. If they can't understand or support you for doing what's best for yourself them F them.

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[You Are My Sunshine 85]

Sorry you're dealing with that.

Do you live with her? Do you eat with her? Is she overweight?

I'm just wondering if maybe there's some codependency there or other relationship issues that are feeding into her not supporting you on a health journey. Is it just the surgery for her or the idea of you losing weight or the fear of changes? Does she not trust in your decision making? Have you made changes already or does she see a pattern of behavior that isn't changing?

Lots of questions, lol. Just trying to help you brainstorm to see where this is coming from. It's so difficult when you don't have support, especially from the people close to you.