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4 hours ago, ms.sss said:

OMG OMG, now YOU get out of MY brain!

I loooove to sing (just try to get the mic out of my hands at karaoke, i DARE you). Like most however, my voice is not something one would pay money to hear...but what I lack in talent, I make up for in enthusiasm.

OK. So now we gotta go source some contractors to build a house on the beach with a recording studio where we can start a band and take turns being the lead singer and back up dancer! The only thing I need to decide is if I wanna be an awesome pianist or an awesome guitar player (electric AND acoustic, mind you.)...oh wait, I could take up the drums too!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I'm in!! Maybe we can grab a few other BPers and start our own girl group! I specialize in late 80s-early 90s rap!

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I've always wanted:

To wear knee high boots and skinny jeans.

One chin.

A waist.

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I've always wanted :

To go horseback riding

To not worry about weight limits

To eat in public without feeling like I'm being judged

To shop in any store for clothes

To fit comfortably in a booth

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I've always wanted to just be able to get through the day without having my weight impact the enjoyment for my family.

I've always wanted to be medication free (and I may be by the time I'm 30)

And I've always wanted to have a baby with my husband (fingers crossed for when the weight is gone and were no longer in a pandemic!)

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I've always wanted to take a surfing lesson in Hawaii. I've now been twice, 10 years ago when I was 6 months pregnant (and too fat anyway), and in 2018 at my high weight at 393. I plan to go again someday and I WILL take my surfing lesson.
I'll most likely fail miserably at it, but it's still something I want to try!

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I have always wanted to keep up with my active family.
Live at the beach!

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Living in a fancy house with big windows, a nice terrace, a big garden and a big pool near the beach. (no way that will ever happen, lol, I'd need to be a gazillionaire)

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I've always wanted to earn back my nickname from my younger days-"Little Bit!" I think I'm there now!

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On 8/6/2020 at 12:07 PM, sdjohnson7 said:

I always wanted to:
Cross my legs, wear boots( ankles never allowed me to), go on vacation and not be tired, go to more parties, wear clothing that fits my style... not my body .

that is me 100%, wanting to cross my legs, wear boots especially the thigh high ones with a little skirt or something, parties, vacation be able to feel comfortable in a swimsuit

I love the "wear clothing that fits my style... not my body"

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I’ve always wanted to have a large collection of coats/jackets to wear as accessories.
I’ve always wanted to be able to cross my legs comfortably.
I’ve always wanted to be able to take pictures from any angle and not hate them.

I can’t wait!

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I was thin when I was teen, but that was 20 years ago. I danced, I sang, I showed horses, heck I did beauty pageants...it all seems so long ago

What I miss most though, not just being a horse show mom, but showing myself. I have been so embarrassed about my weight for so long I quit showing, and I was fortunate enough to have been very very good at it. It was what made my world turn from morning to night, and I miss participating as an actual showman tremendously, but not anymore. I will be back
In the ring showing this coming year. To say I’m extremely excited is an understatement.

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