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14 hours ago, IAmGrace said:

I'm sorry that you've spent a lot of time typing your message. Thank you BUT everything you have to say here is obvious.

Sorry - but this is not being "a down to earth person who tells it like it is." This is being bitchy.

Let me "tell it like it is." What IAmGrace wrote is THE answer to your question. There is no other answer.

If the answer to your question is so obvious to you - then why are you asking it?

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8 minutes ago, rjan said:

Sorry - but this is not being "a down to earth person who tells it like it is." This is being bitchy.

Let me "tell it like it is." What IAmGrace wrote is THE answer to your question. There is no other answer.

If the answer to your question is so obvious to you - then why are you asking it? 

RJAN: If you followed the sequence of posts here, you will see that I didn't ask a question. Don't call me a b***h before you know what you're talking about.

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4 hours ago, IAmGrace said:

RJAN: If you followed the sequence of posts here, you will see that I didn't ask a question. Don't call me a b***h before you know what you're talking about.

I apologize - you didn't ask a question. As you said, you are here crying out for help.

That is the help you will get here - people kindly taking the time to tell you to stick at it and the pounds will come off eventually. People kindly taking the time to tell you not to compare yourself to others who started at higher weights or have faster metabolisms. People kindly taking the time to tell you to Celebrate non-scale successes. There can be no other help other than that. No one here can turn back time and reverse your surgery, or make your weight come off more quickly, or anything like that.

If you don't want that help, don't come here and snipe at people because the responses they so kindly took the time to give you are "obvious."

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RJAN: You obviously love drama. I didn't snipe as you put it. If you want to discuss this further, please message me in private. I'm sure these people don't want to hear this nonsense.

Grace

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