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Just now, wanda247 said:

@Matt Z I'm weird...what can I say lol.

I wasn't directing that *AT* you... that was more my impression on them... I can feel mine like crazy now... and it's really weird. Being overweight for MOST of my life has really made this weight loss like a sort of lost and found adventure LOL

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I ate a piece of bacon during my pre-op diet and it. was. Magnificent. Then I felt super guilty. 🙈🥓

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9 minutes ago, GreenTealael said:

You don't like my protruding clavicle , Cash? 😎😎😎😎😎

I used to have them way back in my high school days but didn't appreciate them until they were gone 😂

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2 minutes ago, Matt Z said:

I wasn't directing that *AT* you... that was more my impression on them... I can feel mine like crazy now... and it's really weird. Being overweight for MOST of my life has really made this weight loss like a sort of lost and found adventure LOL

No offense taken 😃

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13 minutes ago, GreenTealael said:

You don't like my protruding clavicle , Cash? 😎😎😎😎😎

I don't like MINE.... yours looks great!

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42 minutes ago, Kbridge said:

How far out are you? That sounds so freaking delicious!

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I was 11 weeks out at that time. I could go for a bag today! 😂

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I ate bbq chicken, corn bread and wedding cake 1 week onto my pre-op diet 😞

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6 hours ago, busyforever said:

I ate bbq chicken, corn bread and wedding cake 1 week onto my pre-op diet 😞

Lol did you crash a wedding just to get a piece because you'd win the thread...

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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On 10/04/2018 at 11:13, xoxococojay said:





I can’t handle super sweet things like that! Someone brought cider donuts to work for someone’s birthday and I broke off a tiny piece (like 1/6 of a donut) to try... it didn’t taste as good as I’d imagined and I felt a little sick after. Glad I only tried a little!






aww i'm sorry you got sick, i hope you feel better. In my case, it's different. I'm a vet and i was sleeved not bypassed so i don't dump. I also choose to only do stuff like that rarely even though i have no reactions to food.


Well, thankfully it was really just a little piece for a “taste”.. so I didn’t get the full on dumping that people talk about..

Yeah.. and I’m the same.. I try to stick to the plan for the most part and if I do cheat, I try to limit it to a small amount. I’d rather give myself a little treat on occasion than feel like I’m depriving myself. 😀

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I ate a piece of regular chocolate that was offered to me.

Also I'm all about inner beauty and development of character/personality. So as soon as someone likes my appearance I use the sorting hat and they are (mentally) sent to Slytherin...But I adorn myself to be appreciated...

Sigh ...

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If you can't be a griffendor, at least be a Hufflepuff, those Sly lerin are scaley, nasty folk. Remember that is where the Malfoy are at!🐊

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@GreenTealael wrote:

"I ate a piece of regular chocolate that was offered to me.

Also I'm all about inner beauty and development of character/personality. So as soon as someone likes my appearance I use the sorting hat and they are (mentally) sent to Slytherin...But I adorn myself to be appreciated...

Sigh ..."

Sorry, it wouldn't let me just click the quote button.. :(

So let me get this straight for future reference, cuz I do like to give people reactions that help them blossom and succeed in life. When I see you post new photos or avis, I'm NOT supposed to comment on how hot you look or how beautiful you are, or that I see such XYZ blah blah blah and then congratulate you? Instead I should make a comment something along the lines of:

"That is a very insightful and astute angle you exposed in that photo--very thought provoking. It really emphasizes the beauty of your soul and reveals the true gentle nature of your spirit..."

Cuz lort I do not want to be in Slitherin'. :D Unless I could be Moaning Myrtle. I'd like to be Moaning Myrtle and annoy people periodically cuz that's just the way I roll. ;) hehe

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Yeah that would be FUN!

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Guess what I am hungry for? Teriyaki fried Tofu, if only Precious Pouch would hold it in instead of spewing! Well let's get my stoma strictute dialated out, and I bet I'll have some!

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hmm can't quote either @FluffyChix

No I meant mostly potential suitors and people outside of the WL/WLS community. I feel the sincerity here and on MFP, etc. But elsewhere I always wonder: How shallow are you? ...

My book would be Harry Potter and the Siren of Social Entrapment

Edited by GreenTealael

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