Still very sick 7wks post op sleeve

I am 7 weeks post op sleeve. I have never been able to drink more than 32 oz in 24 hours. I have been rehydrated in er every other week. I have had to have sleeve dilated because Fluid will just sit on top. I became lactose intolerant. I have passed 2 kidney stones. Had a uti and yeast infection. Had to be intubated for sleeve to be dilated. Had side effect to anesthesia for the dilation. I still can’t eat solids. I am gray in color, always cold and tired. I had to throw a fit at week 5 with the Np because u can’t see ur dr only np after surgery. They made the dr call me and that’s how I got to the specialist to do dilation. I have been on zofran, carafate and Reglan. I vomit bile at night while I sleep. All they say all normal except the need for dilation. Please if anyone has had these issues let me know.