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8 hours ago, aleeman said:

Surgery was yesterday boy I had no idea how painful it was going to be. I’m honestly shocked.

Hang in there, it will pass. Take your pain meds and do exactly what your doctor says. You will be fine.:)

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Hi, Sorry to hear that you're having such discomfort. I had a Roux N Y Bypass. My Surgeon did it through Laparoscopy 2 years ago & I had no pain what so ever! I had the BEST Dr. Call your surgeon, there is no need for you to be suffering! Good Luck!

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yea i was surprised at the pain level too.

but it goes away within days so just tough it out.

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One thing I have realized reading these forums....we all have differing amounts of pain, especially as all of us have different levels of pain we can tolerate.

I had a lot of burning, stinging pain at an incision on my right, but no gas pain as I was walking so much. Others had lots of gas pain, or left side pain. How I have measured my progress is this....Am I improving daily? The answer is yes.

Follow any restrictions. Take your medicine as prescribed. You should see small improvements daily.

I am one week out today.

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Yeap my first moment coming out of surgery... was horrible. After that it was manageable. ( with my pump med)


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Yeap my first moment coming out of surgery... was horrible. After that it was manageable. ( with my pump med)


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No pain pump. I have to beg a nurse to get them to bring something. Then I think something weird going on here, the nurse leaving her last shift said I had 30 ml when I only had 15 ml. I even have my husband here seeing everything I do, so I know I wasn’t just mistaken.

Then I paged for the nurse three times and waited over an hour to get meds. By the time she showed up I was bawling and crying and the meds barely would work.

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1 hour ago, aleeman said:

Then I paged for the nurse three times and waited over an hour to get meds. By the time she showed up I was bawling and crying and the meds barely would work.

As a nurse in a hospital, this is unacceptable and needs to be reported to the charge nurse or supervisor. No patient should be waiting an hour for pain medications.

So sorry you are receiving such poor nursing care.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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