As a newbie I'm asking "What kinda site is this?"

[CJ Sunshine 241]

Thanks XYZ. I was very honestly not wanting to create a stir, I really wanted to know if others felt supported and edified. Believe me, I understand that there are jerks in the world, but I am in a place right now where I want to set myself up for success, not agitation.

I'm relatively new here too. I've seen some of the negative remarks and just skipped over them. I personally have only had supportive comments written to my post.

[lindabalseca 373]

16 hours ago, celticNgel said:

While I understand that Veronique, you would certainly think that "normal" people wouldn't be talking about blowing peoples heads off with a 9 mm!!!! Childish....

omg i was in that thread....she verbally attacked me as well

[Véronique 238]

1 hour ago, lindabalseca said:

omg i was in that thread....she verbally attacked me as well

Wait, that actually happened?!? That's so screwed up!

[Véronique 238]

I've found a great book online today that should help you find ways to beat your post-op depression.

Edited September 13, 2017 by Véronique

[lindabalseca 373]

1 minute ago, Véronique said:

Wait, that actually happened?!? That's so screwed up!

you forgot already lol? that was the thread "i regret this surgery" you know the supposed psychologist. that was a nightmare

[Véronique 238]

2 minutes ago, lindabalseca said:

you forgot already lol? that was the thread "i regret this surgery" you know the supposed psychologist. that was a nightmare

I don't remember seeing that post but I will tell you one thing, if she is really a psychologist, her licensure needs to be a thing of the past.

Edited September 13, 2017 by Véronique

[summerset 5,261]

18 hours ago, celticNgel said:

I just joined this site yesterday and I was surfing the forums, and I couldn't help recognizing all of the fighting...is this normal?

Never seen an internet discussion platform of any kind where it doesn't occur. So I guess it's normal.

[Bhageerah 161]

I saw the post about a week ago and saw that it turned absolutely crazy then, after I saw the first few posts I said forget it and have not returned to that monster. I know its what happens but that does not make it excusable either. Oh well, I guess the anonymity of the internet gives some folks more bravado since they really are not saying it to someones face. I don't know all I know is that it is an absolute shame. But I will agree with others, ignore them and move on because this site does have quite a bit of information that has helped me out! Ignore the nonsense and move on!

[celticNgel 144]

Yup......

[imadethelist 226]

I hope you've found some supportive people here. I know I did and I hope to be one of those supportive people now for others. Keep us posted on your progress and know so many are out here cheering you on!!! If I personally can be of help don't hesitate to reach out!!!

[celticNgel 144]

Honestly, I need the support. I don't want to tell them I'm depressed as I am because I'm afraid they won't do the surgery....

[Rainbow_Warrior 996]

On 13/09/2017 at 9:15 AM, celticNgel said:

I was surfing the forums, and I couldn't help recognizing all of the fighting...is this normal?

I'm at a loss to know what you're referring to, celticNgel.

I have posted my story.

I have responded to other people's weight loss news.

People have responded to me by offering me hope, advice or words of applause.

Of about 180 responses in ten days, only ONE has been negative.

Maybe, I'm guessing, you have entered the wrong forums.

[expectopatronum 37]

Honestly, I need the support. I don't want to tell them I'm depressed as I am because I'm afraid they won't do the surgery....

YMMV, but I discussed my depression during my eval and I was approved. I don't think depression in and of itself will disqualify you unless it is impairing your ability to comply with your program.

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[celticNgel 144]

I was in the sleeve forum and there was a very negative conversation, and it threw me....wanted to make sure it wasn't normal....

[celticNgel 144]

Thanks! That's good to know!!!!