Pregnant at 13 months post op

I'm 13 months post op, and just found out that I am pregnant with my 2nd child, my daughter is 3, and so its been a while a little while since I went through this. But my first pregnancy I gained like 60 lbs. Alot of it was due to me stopping work when I was 4 months. And my husband was so scared of me doing anything so I pretty much ate and sat about near the rest of my pregnancy term. I know what I have to do this time as far as being more active. I'm just scared of getting a bunch of weight again and the surgery going to waste. Can anyone who has been through this similar situation as far as pregnancy this early post operation, giving me any pointers on gaining the minimal amount of weight with still being healthy. I cannot get that big again.

Side note: I also have only lost 60 lbs since surgery (I know, not that much huh??)...(68 lbs including preop diet)

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