I just moved to ATL a year ago and I really only know my cousin down here and my co workers of course. My mother may not be able to fly down to help me after surgery during my recovery phase, and I mean my cousin can come over to help a little I guess. But will I need much help? I dont have anything heavy to lift at home.

My sister had this done years back. She recommended at least having someone with me at the hospital to help walk around and the first couple of days...mainly because I have an 8 yr old son and will be much easier to take care of him. You will be very weak and exhausted...especially the first week. I've heard of people over doing it and passing out. Can't take that chance around my son so thankfully one of my sister's is flying in tomorrow for surgery on Tuesday! Good luck!

I think you'll be okay without much help. You will likely be exhausted and not feel like doing a whole lot. 2 weeks post op and I'm still exhausted, but the only thing I really needed help with was grocery bags (but I could have done it making several trips if my husband hadn't grabbed them).

Ok, thanks. I guess I'll wait and see when I have my surgery scheduled for and go from there. My cousin just had a baby too lol but she only lives 5mins away so maybe she can atleast come to the hospital and of course drive me home but we'll see.

Thanks for the responses!

I just got sleeved yesterday and woke up in so much pain and nausea...soooo glad my sister was here...couldnt imagine doing it alone. I feel 100% better today after they switched my meds up.