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Will You Be My Sleeve Sister?? 33 yr old Pre-Op from CT

Hello Everyone! This is my first time posting anything on this site, I've been watching hundreds of YouTube clips about VSG and am nervous and excited about going through the process. I would love to have a friend go alongside me who understands the struggles associated with choosing bariatric surgery. My family doesn't understand, my friends don't understand, my church would never support such a decision - so really, I'm on my own.

About me: I decided after many other failed diet attempts to do VSG after a coworker of mine did it and looks PHENOMENAL! I am considered a lightweight because I'm only 218 lbs with a BMI of 38.6. I don't have any comorbidities so I've honestly been working overtime to gain the 7 lbs I need to hit a 40 BMI (don't judge me). I'm still not there yet but I've def gained weight and feel HORRIBLE!!!! I hate the way I look and feel about myself. But I'm willing to gain in order to lose. I fear getting VSG and losing too much. I don't want to be skinny, like a size 0-2 but my surgeon says African American bariatric patients who get the sleeve tend to lose less than our racial counterparts. Weird. I'd be happy with 140-145 lbs. Anywho, would love to find a friend, or "sleeve sister".

God Bless You All!

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I'll be your sleeve sister.i just had my sleeve done 4/20/2017

Just now, nomorefatjo said:

I would love to chat with anyone that needs a buddy. Yesterday makes 1 month post op for me. I'm down 24 lbs and feel great!

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Congrats!

1 minute ago, nomorefatjo said:


Thanks How are you doing?

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im actually doing pretty good! I seem to have days where im not hungry at all and having to force myself to get liquids down. I start pureed food Thursday :)

im actually doing pretty good! I seem to have days where im not hungry at all and having to force myself to get liquids down. I start pureed food Thursday [emoji4]

Wait what. You are still only on liquids? Wow. I'm on a full food diet. Even tho I can't really eat more than cottage cheese and eggs.

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1 minute ago, nomorefatjo said:


Wait what. You are still only on liquids? Wow. I'm on a full food diet. Even tho I can't really eat more than cottage cheese and eggs.

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im on full liquid (soup phase, as i call it)... Im 11 days post op

6 minutes ago, nomorefatjo said:


I still have a hard time getting in all fluids.

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We will get there!

Hello Everyone! This is my first time posting anything on this site, I've been watching hundreds of YouTube clips about VSG and am nervous and excited about going through the process. I would love to have a friend go alongside me who understands the struggles associated with choosing bariatric surgery. My family doesn't understand, my friends don't understand, my church would never support such a decision - so really, I'm on my own.
About me: I decided after many other failed diet attempts to do VSG after a coworker of mine did it and looks PHENOMENAL! I am considered a lightweight because I'm only 218 lbs with a BMI of 38.6. I don't have any comorbidities so I've honestly been working overtime to gain the 7 lbs I need to hit a 40 BMI (don't judge me). I'm still not there yet but I've def gained weight and feel HORRIBLE!!!! I hate the way I look and feel about myself. But I'm willing to gain in order to lose. I fear getting VSG and losing too much. I don't want to be skinny, like a size 0-2 but my surgeon says African American bariatric patients who get the sleeve tend to lose less than our racial counterparts. Weird. I'd be happy with 140-145 lbs. Anywho, would love to find a friend, or "sleeve sister".
God Bless You All!

Hi! I would love to be your friend & sleeve sister! My surgery date is May 9th and I'm so ready! I'm sorry that you don't have the support system that you deserve, but I'll be here as much as I can. Keep your head up! Be Blessed!

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My email is sraudales@rocketmail.com and phone is 250 365 9362. I am interested in building a smallish network of people for support and to give support. Please anyone who wants to be in contact feel free to reach out...I'm here and need a sleeve buddy...no gender preference for the men out there [emoji6]

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